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its not called abstinence when you are too fat to fuck and to big a mooch to take a female out
Hmm, that must mean you had the same experience with a guy. Thanks for the tip.
Many chicks have sadly. Abstinence is 100%, but we are talking about teenagers here.
What? Teenagers are quite capable of exercising better judgment, when properly encouraged.
Some do, some don't.
What is known however, is that despite looking like and wanting to be adults, they aren't really. Important parts of the brain (those that control impulses and judgement) are not mature until around 25. Those are the factors involved in judgement of risky behavior and consequences. Why, for example is auto insurance higher for teens and young adults then for older adults?
What I find hard to understand is that we wouldn't think of having a 3 yr old learn about the "consequences" of a hot stove by upending a pot of boiling water on himself. We wouldn't trust the judgement of a 6 year old and send him across 6 lanes of traffic unaccompanied. Somehow though when it comes to teenagers and sex, we assume they are going to think and act like adults. The might or they might not. But it seems to me we shouldn't rely on it and there should be a Plan B for preventing pregnancy. Plan B shouldn't be a baby.
True, but we are going to extreams. 9 times out of ten the 3 year old will end up touching the stove anyway, and will likely see the stupidity of running out in traffic. Teens are different all together and they know better.
They may "know" better but they're still going to do stupid stuff. So why not make it easier for them to make the right choice? Ok, we understand that despite what we say, you still might find yourself in a situation where you're going to have sex - so get birth control.