By that logic you can't deny marriage to anyone, be it by age, blood ties, or number of people. Equal protection only applies to equal situations. Marriages between men and women are equal regardless of race, because race is not a factor in a marriage biologically.
IF people in a State want to extend the marriage contract to same sex couples or polygamous groups, I have no issue. My issue is with using courts to force it on them using the concept that constitutionally same sex= opposite sex.
The slippery slope fallacy rears its ugly head. Minors are not allowed to enter into contracts. There is no stipulation for "equal situations." Otherwise, one could say that poor people can't get married and only wealthy can. Blacks can't get married and only whites can. Equal protection applies to everyone. Arbitrary distinctions to declare inequality of the situation have no place in law.
The courts are there to interpret law and the Constitution. That's their job. Your issue is really in the system the founders set up. I'm personally agree with Rand Paul on this. When governments “do wrong we should overturn them,” Paul said. “There is a role for the Supreme Court to mete out justice.”
I agree with a lot of this post.
Equal protection applies to everyone.
Then why shouldn't I be allowed maternity leave? Or why should veterans get benefits from the government I do not? Or why shouldn't I get medicare when I am under 65? Or why can't I get a driver's license at 14 if I can meet all the other legal requirements?
Why can't you get maternity leave? Veteran's benefits are part of contract they signed. Sign the same contract and you'll get them, too. Medicare is for elderly people, but just wait a bit and we'll all be getting the same health benefits. Society has decided that a 14 year old is not mature enough to drive a vehicle. A driver's license isn't the same thing as hospital visitation rights either.
1. Because I am a guy. If equal protection was absolute, it would not matter.
2. What about people the military rejects? If Equal protection is absolute, that would be a violation, as that person does not have equal access.
3. Again, what does age have to do with equality if it is absolute?
4. Same thing.
We have been through this before- a state can only deny 'rights'- which in this case would be equal protection under the law if the State can demonstrate a compelling reason to do so.
And if you can't see a compelling reason why the State can make a compelling argument that the physical situation is different for a woman who has just given birth and is nursing and the father who gave the sperm donation 9 months before...then there is no hope for you.