iamwhatiseem
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- Aug 19, 2010
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Exactly.... like doing each others laundryYes, it is a bad thing to be going into a marriage with that mindset already in place. Going into such an intimate and long-term relationship with that sort of potentially-adversarial, "determined to maintain individuality" attitude is a recipe for failure. Marriage isn't like just moving in with a new roommate. You're supposed to be a team, becoming a fused unit.