Concerned American
Diamond Member
Never gone to bed angry in 48 years.sending a partner to sleep on the couch after a fight is a pretty common thing.
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Never gone to bed angry in 48 years.sending a partner to sleep on the couch after a fight is a pretty common thing.
Never gone to bed angry in 48 years.
I didn't say that we have never been angry with one another--just never went to bed angry. Life isn't an absolute, that's what makes it worth living. What happens today may be totally different tomorrow and that's a good thing.Good for you, she was just acting like it was unheard of and that nobody ever got angry with their partners.
Yeah, maybe making was the wrong word I have to admit,.. but all I meant was having him pitch in and do the share of the chores.
We're engaged. We're not out on our own yet.
Now you're just being ridiculous.
Lol we don't even have kids yet.
I'm not really sure what you're getting at but I'm still going to do things for him,.. I'm just not going to do everything for him is all.
I mean in the sense that they both have responsibilities and getting angry with one another and sending a partner to sleep on the couch after a fight is a pretty common thing. Not that I expect that will happen of course because like I already said before we're both on the same page about sharing responsibilities.
True, but I don't think that can happen when you're already both in agreement about something.
Good for you, she was just acting like it was unheard of and that nobody ever got angry with their partners.
What consequences would you have in mind for an adult male?Simple, it's the same thing that you expect from your children,.. be responsible for yourself or there will be consequences for your actions. Children are grounded and have their toys and special privileges taken away, men are sent to the sofa.
What consequences would you have in mind for an adult male?
That kind of thinking just might drive him to find someone else's bed to share.I can't imagine trying to send Joe to sleep somewhere else because I'm pissed at him.
Nope.Bruises, contusions?
Thank you. Sadly most modern women do treat their partners as subordinate.Excuse me? The same as children? My husband is not my child. I do not give him orders and punish him for disobeying. I'm his wife, not his mommy. And I can't even imagine trying to tell my husband he can't sleep in his bed in his bedroom. I imagine it would start with the response, "Fuck that", and go downhill from there, though.
If she is a Conservative woman who believes in Gender Equality like tho OP, that is great.In my dating experience I’ve found a lot of ladies in 2021 want traditional men but aren’t traditional women. Therefore, I’m of the opinion that if the guy makes most of the money, he shouldn’t be doing too many household chores.
My wife is perhaps even more conservative than I am.If she is a Conservative woman who believes in Gender Equality like tho OP, that is great.
If she is a Progressive who has contempt for men, then she will definitely be an abuser.
I do all of Bonzi and I's laundry.Why? Because you expect her to baby you and do everything for you?
I just worry that it sounds like you're going into this with the wrong perspective. I mean, I don't know either of you; all I've got is your words. But it sounds like you're looking at this as staking out a territory and making sure "that other person" doesn't take advantage of you. .
Well, apparently she thinks she's going to tell him, "You were very naughty to not do the chores I ordered you to, now go sleep on the couch and think about what you've done."
If she is a Conservative woman who believes in Gender Equality like tho OP, that is great.
If she is a Progressive who has contempt for men, then she will definitely be an abuser.
And that's a bad thing?? First of all I already know that we aren't always going to agree with one another, but not wanting to take advantage of the other person or have them take advantage of you in a marriage seems like a really good thing to me and neither of us do want to do that. So I expect we won't have any problems.
No I'm not going to tell him that because he isn't like that. I was just making an example.
Conservative definitely.