And take pains to make that wedding day so miserable, no one would ever forget it. Get the parents, tell them how their sons and daughters will burn in hell forever. Pray. Loudly. Ask forgiveness for being forced to commit a grievous sin. Pay a couple of high school kids to protest your own bakery. Have a big poster with a photograph of the couple saying "this bakery supports buttffucking." Deliver the cake and tell everyone how awful it is that you were forced into slavery. " But, there's nothing wrong with the cake. Even though my emotional state is so tormented, I'm sure the cake is fine." Have a bakery employee with you to say how delicious the cake is "but I wouldn't eat it."Because people have other shit to worry about on their wedding day and you are paying the baker hundreds, and in some cases thousands, of dollar? Deliver the fucking cake.TI've never been to a wedding where the baker stayed for the reception after dropping off and setting up the cake.Absolutely. If they want a custom cake with rainbow and gay symbols on it...nah. Same as how I wouldn't want a Jewish baker to make a Nazi cake or a Muslim to make a Mohammed cake.
But if a gay man walks in and orders 10 standard cakes for a wedding? I'm ok with the law saying you can't deny the standard product you sell to everyone else out of the store.
Custom cakes and attending events....that should be a choice.
Where did the couple in Oregon who went to Sweet Cakes and order a cake.....insist that the baker 'cater their wedding'?
Maybe it is a regional thing. Around here the baker brings the cake to the ceremony, sets it all up and is actually present at the ceremony & reception. That is considered catering, as opposed to customers picking up cakes/sweets at the shop. This, as far as I can tell, is the big sticking point. The bakers are fine baking a wedding cake. They don't want to go to the event, as that is construed as supporting the event. IIRC, the one that was for pickup (not!catered), baker had an issue with cake toppers and offered to include the 2 same-sex figurines but asked the customer to actually put it on the top, at a discounted rate. This was deemed unacceptable and the baker was sued.
Are wedding cakes pickup in your region?
Why do they have to drop it off and set it up. It's a cake. Go in buy your cake. Stop making wedding cakes for the public. .
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