Skylar
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So if the couple is happy to pick up their cake rather than have it delivered.....you're cool?
Absolutely. If they want a custom cake with rainbow and gay symbols on it...nah. Same as how I wouldn't want a Jewish baker to make a Nazi cake or a Muslim to make a Mohammed cake.
But if a gay man walks in and orders 10 standard cakes for a wedding? I'm ok with the law saying you can't deny the standard product you sell to everyone else out of the store.
Custom cakes and attending events....that should be a choice.
Where did the couple in Oregon who went to Sweet Cakes and order a cake.....insist that the baker 'cater their wedding'?
Maybe it is a regional thing. Around here the baker brings the cake to the ceremony, sets it all up and is actually present at the ceremony & reception. That is considered catering, as opposed to customers picking up cakes/sweets at the shop. This, as far as I can tell, is the big sticking point. The bakers are fine baking a wedding cake. They don't want to go to the event, as that is construed as supporting the event. IIRC, the one that was for pickup (not!catered), baker had an issue with cake toppers and offered to include the 2 same-sex figurines but asked the customer to actually put it on the top, at a discounted rate. This was deemed unacceptable and the baker was sued.
Are wedding cakes pickup in your region?
Its mix and match. But if is dropped off its usually well before the ceremony. And they don't wait at the wedding. They deliver....and the leave. Most of the time there are several weddings happening on the same day and they deliver several cakes for them.
Interesting. That would be more profitable. They dont generally attend the church weddings in this region unless they are friends or family, because they are at the reception hall putting the cake together. A lot of weddings here are a wedding/reception combo in the same hall/civic center, so no way to avoid the wedding.
Weddings here tend to bunch on the weekends. So there can be several weddings that cakes are being delivered to on the same day. If there are scheduling conflicts they are usually worked out in advance. Which is where the 'pick ups' come in.. Delivery is most common in my experience. And there is some set up, but its usually before the wedding. The cake makers do their best to get in, set up, and get out as quickly as possible.
Even on elaborate cakes it usually takes....an hour maybe? Often as little time as it takes to move the cake from the van to the table its going to be served from.
I do some pretty elaborate cake toppers for some clients during wedding season, so I know more than the average bear about the local wedding scene. You have to work cheek by jowl with many of the cake bakers. But then....they're some of your best sources of referrals! It doesn't hurt that I only do certain designs for certain bakers. So if you want that design, you have to buy their cake.
Its a nice source of a little springtime fun money. Most of my pieces are studio work.