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I know there are a lot of people who say sex shouldn't be a priority in a marriage, but they are wrong. Sex is the glue that holds a marriage together.
If a spouse refuses to have sex, you need to find out why. It's not enough of a reason to say he/she doesn't feel like it. You shouldn't deny your spouse that physical closeness.
Worse comes to worse, you should at least let the spouse know that you will have to seek affection elsewhere.
If it's the glue that holds a marriage together, then what good will it do to seek affection elsewhere?
You make it sound like a business arrangement. "I'm sorry, but if you don't see things my way, I'll take my business elsewhere."
Eh?
Are you trying to justify a husband or a wife denying affection to his/her spouse? Unless your husband or wife is treating you horribly or being a bad parent, there should be no reason why you should have sex with him or her.
If you don't behave like a wife or husband, you shouldn't be treated as one.
When you make your vows, sex is implicit. No sex is grounds for divorce.
If those are your grounds for divorce, then get your divorce - FIRST. Don't use sex as a tool by saying "If you don't do give me sex, I'm going to get it elsewhere." and then stay married.