Even with her abrasive personality and the way she sounded like every guy's ex, Hillary should have coasted to an easy victory. The fact is, her baggage and corruption cost her and Trump beat her.
Uh, no.
The fact is, we just don't like uppity women. You even slipped a bit of misogyny in there yourself...
Look how many people are losing their shit over the new Star Wars movies and their strong female characters.
Look at how many people are losing their shit over the fact the next Doctor Who is going to be a woman.
You might not like uppity women, but we like them just fine. Hillary sounding like an ex has less to do with misogyny than with the fact that she shrieks and lectures and hectors from the stage. Obama at least could read a speech and sound convincing. His anger at America came out in different ways.
Are those who whine about Trump being orange doing it because they hate men? If I were to utilize your standard, I could proclaim it to be so.
As for the entertainment world's female roles, so what? The good ones will survive, ala Wonder Woman, while the bad ones won't, witness the female ghost busters.
Bottom line, Hillary was the worse candidate and lost to Trump. The worse you try to make him look, the worse she looks by comparison because inevitably, the question always comes up, "if he was so bad, so weak, so stupid, why didn't she beat him easily?".