To no one in particular....
Let's say I move across the tracks to the worst side of town, and then I get robbed. So I stand on a soapbox and yell to my friends....
"What I really want is security!!!"
My friends roll their eyes and look at me curiously, wondering if maybe I've been drinking. They take pity on me and offer me a room at their house in the best part of town. And I yell back...
"No!!! I want to conquer this shithole!!!"
Ok, whatever, my friends shrug.
And then the next time I get robbed nobody will listen to my story.
Exactly! Israel never complained because (in your metaphor) Israel is a big tough dude heavily armed, not the typical robbery victim.. however it is unlawful to rob ANYONE.
So try asking the Palestinians to leave Israel, if peace is what they desire above all.
And by the way Israel is not a shithole, Gaza is.