Cecilie1200
Diamond Member
Not everyone has the freedom to move every time a job market dries up.
Unless they are on probation, they most certainly do.
Do you have kids in school? Elderly parents? A mortgage on a house you've put hours of work into?
You are kidding.....I hope.
People have been moving since the dawn of time. With kids in school and elderly parents. And your mortgage is your business.
Or do you really believe that is an entitlement ?
I believe that people with commitments to their families take those commitments seriously.
I've also observed that those who toss off "Pick up and move where the jobs are" usually have no commitments or don't give a shit.
"Oh, the wife has a job locally? Well, fuck her - we're moving!"
What an A-hole. I have a friend who just quite his job and took another job in Wisconsin. His wife had to quit hers so they could move. People move all the time, and the wife usually has to quit when they do.
"Kids like their school? Well, fuck them, we're moving!"
So you're saying my parents said "Fuck the kids" when we moved?"
"Mom's in a nursing home and she won't get to see me or the grandkids that often if we move? Well, fuck her (she doesn't like me anyway; can't imagine why), we're moving!"
I wouldn't put my mother in a nursing home. That is cruelty of the worse kind. However, we all know libs don't want their parents living with them. That's one reason they always give for supporting Social Security.
My mother is getting on in age, and at least one family member has always lived with her. When I, as the youngest, became an adult, it was because my father was starting the long, painful decline to his death, and she needed help with him. After he died, it was her health that became the concern. We have determined that, unless she declines so badly that she needs round-the-clock medical care, we do not want her in a nursing facility. With that in mind, a purchase was made years ago of a 1-acre plot of land with two manufactured houses on it, so that my brother and my daughter can remain with her until she dies and still have space for their own families.
I have little patience with families who simply don't want to be bothered with their own elderly.