OldLady
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I've seen the other side of the coin, working with victims of DV, rape, and stalking. The LE response can be frustrating, to say the least. If it's difficult to prove a case of rape in a campus hearing, as you said, because it is all "he said she said," there is no way the LE could do anything about it. They are not the ONLY solution, which I believe is why this policy was added to Title IX to begin with. If it is not being performed correctly, that is on a campus to campus basis, I think. Not reason to throw away the entire concept.Harsh punishments may not necessarily change a rapist's behavior, but it sure will change the behavior of his buddies who see what happened to him. No means no. Sex should be approached a bit more thoughtfully and cautiously with someone you have an established, trusted relationship with. Then these situations would be a whole lot less frequent.And there is where you are wrong, and will always be wrong. You think that it's just fine to punish someone for a crime that he did not commit. It's a bit startling to see you so openly admit it, but there it is.
Hey, you know what, harsh punishments change behavior.... sorry, man.
If you think the frats aren't changing their behavior, for the better, because of this you are delusional.
With all due respect you need to also consider the other side of the coin. What if a student has been a serial rapist and all the student ever faced was expulsion? And then with a vengeance that student then goes out to rape some more? Off campus.