The country isn't yours to lose. If the country decides to change in ways you don't like, too bad. That's freedom.Lose the culture war, lose the country.
It doesn't give the power to referee speech. That's the entire point of the freedom of speech clause in the First Amendment.The 1st amendment gives people the power, not the government, the government just gets to referee then.
Your commitment to winning the culture war clearly trumps your commitment to free speech, or freedom in general.