flacaltenn
Diamond Member
What I find is that some people start feeling funny at some point and start wanting you to reciprocate after they have satisfied themselves that you think they are interesting. Some people like you say are so beaten down they absolutely glow in the attention and never stop talking about themselves.Most people you talk to are not going to be interested unless you can offer them something. This is where the fun comes in. You get them excited about talking about themselves and they tell you all kinds of interesting things.
All I find is they just want to talk MORE about themselves. People don't naturally consider the other person, if you let them be selfish, they will take it all the way.....
I guess. I'm not saying I'm right or anything, I'm just saying "what is" for me.
I'm not willing to make changes at 52
I am pretty much a loner in real life - so it's not a big deal, but women are just so shallow and catty.... hard to find people that want to be real.....
Hey... That's what I wanted to "know about women" in that other thread.
Why can't they get along. Particularly at work. The worst office feuds are almost ALWAYS between women..
Is THAT the catty you're talking about??
That is why most of my best friends are guys...no drama. Having my 2 boys is awesome as well, no drama..
True of MOST guys. But my more urban friends -- being the metros they are -- are much higher maintenance than my local buds..