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ahhh dementia...what a fun game.....gracie my mother attacked me several times.....inside the assisted living....nothing like being punched and kicked by your own mom.....
people say ....o she doesnt mean it...and i am sure she doesnt....one thing to remember...is you walk away feeling like shit...i dont care how you deal with it...you always carry the guilt...guess what...they dont feel or remember a damn thing....so drop the guilt...i knew better than to bring mom into my home...it would destroy my marriage and family....i refuse to be that person who gives up everything for an aging mother...simple as that....
protect yourself and give them some time....step back from it and maybe at a later date you can help them with relocation to a needed home or facility....
Then again, there are two sides to very story.
Gracie has been very up front about the person she is... she talks about it all over the forum. Hell even she hates and cant stand herself becasue she knows just who she is....mean, nasty, vicious, evil, and so on.
It could be the BIL just could not take gracies abuse anymore. Ever think of that?
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