Pogo
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- Dec 7, 2012
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It's perfectly fine to be questionable on things you're not sure of. But yes Music is the ice breaker. She probley didn't say hello because maybe a related persons were in the area. I have said hello to a few covered woman and they don't speak. Hardly smile, at all.
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She wasn't "covered" at all. The only aspect that gave the OP any pause at all was the way her name is pronounced. That's it.
Sounds like she was single, independent, pretty and open. OP just simply booted it. He's letting us know he'd rather live with his own paranoia than with an interesting woman.
Yanno what --- it's even possible she gave him a fake name to test his mettle. In which case she played him like a cheap mandolin, rather than the OP playing himself like one.
On the plus side- just think how much that woman would be thanking her lucky stars today, if she found out she avoided getting to know protectionist?
Of course, and the irony is he would have had far more to gain in terms of a teachable moment and challenge to his entrenched biases, than she would have. For her it would have been either a waste of time or a test of her patience; for him it would have opened up an entire world he's been denying himself. A revelation of which he's terrified.