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Have you ever contracted crabs?It's like you fucking morons think you're going to get gay cooties if you're around the homos.
sheesh
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Have you ever contracted crabs?It's like you fucking morons think you're going to get gay cooties if you're around the homos.
sheesh
The Pastor made the noble right decision. I would have done the same thing. Morals had to be upheld.
Family Church in Lakewood stops woman s funeral because she was gay - The Denver Post
The church should give the family at least a partial refund for the part of the service they didn't get. Giving the video to the pastor is meaningless. There's no proof he saw it and no reason why he would have seen it. If the family didn't make it explicitly clear that the deceased was a lesbian then the family has committed fraud and may not be entitled to any refund at all.
It wasn't an 'honest mistake', they sent a video of two lesbians kissing to the Pastor. The church then pocketed the money, and added it to their tax deduction - as well as put it in the bank to earn interest.The Pastor made the noble right decision. I would have done the same thing. Morals had to be upheld.
Family Church in Lakewood stops woman s funeral because she was gay - The Denver Post
Mom s Funeral Halted by Pastor Over Affectionate Photos of Two Wives
If they already paid for the space, to bring in their own pastor,
they should have agreed to all this in the first place.
You don't wait until the middle of the services to find out there is a contract dispute and yank it.
How traumatizing for the children and the family who were NEVER told there were such objections.
The conflict was over displaying photos of the two women in roles normally reserved for husband and wife,
such as proposing and kissing and displaying affection between partners.
Anyone who objected should have either been consulted *in advance*,
so the services were taken to another location without those conflicts,
or work it out where nobody has to be there or feel imposed upon who is against this.
If it were something like a film shoot, and suddenly
the owners are told there is porn being filmed and they don't agree,
I can understand interrupting that.
For a funeral service, I would have recommended they let it slide if it was already set up,
and just specify in the future so that doesn't happen again.
But the pastor who was planning to conduct the service
should have checked in advance and made sure other people who own that space
have no objections, knowing this is a sensitive issue.
If this Pastor Ray had the authority to void the contract,
he should have been notified in advance. Yet I would still have
asked him to respect the contract and let the services finish,
and not try to address this dispute in the middle and especially in front of grieving kids, family and friends.
They did not mean to offend or insult or impose.
It was an honest mistake not to check with everyone first.
If they intended to defraud someone, whoever did that deserved to be reprimanded,
but not the other people who had no idea there was a conflict.
Pastor Ray should not be criticized for his beliefs, but for
how he overreacted by interrupting services when it was a mutual mistake
not to inform both sides in advance so they could have prevented this clash.
The beliefs are not to blame, but the way this was mishandled was a mutual conflict
and should have been prevented by checking with all parties in advance. I'm sorry this happened.
I respect both views that clearly should have been kept separate by choosing a location without such conflicts.
My best wishes and prayers to the family, friends, and community
that they resolve this in good faith and not stir or incite any harsh feelings
that isn't the best way to send someone off to rest in peace.
It is better to forgive, make peace and heal,
so those personal sacrifices made for sake of restoring good faith relations
become an offering in honor of loved ones passing on to the next world.
False. By US law no one is required to state their sexual orientation beyond male and female. They can't be convicted of fraud for saying the dead lesbian was female.The church should give the family at least a partial refund for the part of the service they didn't get. Giving the video to the pastor is meaningless. There's no proof he saw it and no reason why he would have seen it. If the family didn't make it explicitly clear that the deceased was a lesbian then the family has committed fraud and may not be entitled to any refund at all.
Why wasnt it at the funeral home to begin with? She didnt go to church... inevitably Preacher would have said something that angered them anyway....... just seems like poor planning .... or an effort to manufacture a story
How can they extort money from a church that didn't perform a service, and didn't spend a cent, and had pocketed the money for 2 weeks in the bank.Why wasnt it at the funeral home to begin with? She didnt go to church... inevitably Preacher would have said something that angered them anyway....... just seems like poor planning .... or an effort to manufacture a story
Ding Ding Ding--we have a winner.
The minister was wrong for doing what he did, but I suspect that he played right into the hands of people looking to make some kind of anti-religion statement, among other things.
The most telling statement from the article is "Collier's friends say they still haven't been reimbursed by New Hope Ministry for the cost of the funeral" There is no reason for the church to pay for a funeral for somebody. They seemingly are just trying to extort money from a church by shaming it out of them as best as I can tell.
Not meaningless as much as flexible. The very same way radical Islamists cloak themselves in the sheer cloth of faith when acting rudely at best, manically violent at worst. Christians don the righteous robes and act most unChristian. The use of Christianity to deny a funeral service for ANYONE is high on the list of the worst uses of Christianity.You've been here long enough to know that the phrase "fundamental tenets of Christianity" is meaningless.It was the wrong and hateful decision, contrary to the fundamental tenets of Christianity.
Convicted? Convicted of fraud? Are you thinking criminal fraud? There's no crime here. It would be a breach of contract. The church breached the contract. An affirmative defense to the breach would be fraud. The sexual orientation of the deceased was an omitted material fact.False. By US law no one is required to state their sexual orientation beyond male and female. They can't be convicted of fraud for saying the dead lesbian was female.The church should give the family at least a partial refund for the part of the service they didn't get. Giving the video to the pastor is meaningless. There's no proof he saw it and no reason why he would have seen it. If the family didn't make it explicitly clear that the deceased was a lesbian then the family has committed fraud and may not be entitled to any refund at all.
It wasn't an 'honest mistake', they sent a video of two lesbians kissing to the Pastor. The church then pocketed the money, and added it to their tax deduction - as well as put it in the bank to earn interest.The Pastor made the noble right decision. I would have done the same thing. Morals had to be upheld.
Family Church in Lakewood stops woman s funeral because she was gay - The Denver Post
Mom s Funeral Halted by Pastor Over Affectionate Photos of Two Wives
If they already paid for the space, to bring in their own pastor,
they should have agreed to all this in the first place.
You don't wait until the middle of the services to find out there is a contract dispute and yank it.
How traumatizing for the children and the family who were NEVER told there were such objections.
The conflict was over displaying photos of the two women in roles normally reserved for husband and wife,
such as proposing and kissing and displaying affection between partners.
Anyone who objected should have either been consulted *in advance*,
so the services were taken to another location without those conflicts,
or work it out where nobody has to be there or feel imposed upon who is against this.
If it were something like a film shoot, and suddenly
the owners are told there is porn being filmed and they don't agree,
I can understand interrupting that.
For a funeral service, I would have recommended they let it slide if it was already set up,
and just specify in the future so that doesn't happen again.
But the pastor who was planning to conduct the service
should have checked in advance and made sure other people who own that space
have no objections, knowing this is a sensitive issue.
If this Pastor Ray had the authority to void the contract,
he should have been notified in advance. Yet I would still have
asked him to respect the contract and let the services finish,
and not try to address this dispute in the middle and especially in front of grieving kids, family and friends.
They did not mean to offend or insult or impose.
It was an honest mistake not to check with everyone first.
If they intended to defraud someone, whoever did that deserved to be reprimanded,
but not the other people who had no idea there was a conflict.
Pastor Ray should not be criticized for his beliefs, but for
how he overreacted by interrupting services when it was a mutual mistake
not to inform both sides in advance so they could have prevented this clash.
The beliefs are not to blame, but the way this was mishandled was a mutual conflict
and should have been prevented by checking with all parties in advance. I'm sorry this happened.
I respect both views that clearly should have been kept separate by choosing a location without such conflicts.
My best wishes and prayers to the family, friends, and community
that they resolve this in good faith and not stir or incite any harsh feelings
that isn't the best way to send someone off to rest in peace.
It is better to forgive, make peace and heal,
so those personal sacrifices made for sake of restoring good faith relations
become an offering in honor of loved ones passing on to the next world.
Then the Pastor waited till the service had begun to cancel it, to cause as much pain and anguish to the mourners as possible.
Fuck, 'forgive and forget', the Pastor is a homophobic asshole gaming the system for profit. It is easy to say 'forgive and forget' when it isn't a funeral of someone close to you.
It wasn't an 'honest mistake', they sent a video of two lesbians kissing to the Pastor. The church then pocketed the money, and added it to their tax deduction - as well as put it in the bank to earn interest.The Pastor made the noble right decision. I would have done the same thing. Morals had to be upheld.
Family Church in Lakewood stops woman s funeral because she was gay - The Denver Post
Mom s Funeral Halted by Pastor Over Affectionate Photos of Two Wives
If they already paid for the space, to bring in their own pastor,
they should have agreed to all this in the first place.
You don't wait until the middle of the services to find out there is a contract dispute and yank it.
How traumatizing for the children and the family who were NEVER told there were such objections.
The conflict was over displaying photos of the two women in roles normally reserved for husband and wife,
such as proposing and kissing and displaying affection between partners.
Anyone who objected should have either been consulted *in advance*,
so the services were taken to another location without those conflicts,
or work it out where nobody has to be there or feel imposed upon who is against this.
If it were something like a film shoot, and suddenly
the owners are told there is porn being filmed and they don't agree,
I can understand interrupting that.
For a funeral service, I would have recommended they let it slide if it was already set up,
and just specify in the future so that doesn't happen again.
But the pastor who was planning to conduct the service
should have checked in advance and made sure other people who own that space
have no objections, knowing this is a sensitive issue.
If this Pastor Ray had the authority to void the contract,
he should have been notified in advance. Yet I would still have
asked him to respect the contract and let the services finish,
and not try to address this dispute in the middle and especially in front of grieving kids, family and friends.
They did not mean to offend or insult or impose.
It was an honest mistake not to check with everyone first.
If they intended to defraud someone, whoever did that deserved to be reprimanded,
but not the other people who had no idea there was a conflict.
Pastor Ray should not be criticized for his beliefs, but for
how he overreacted by interrupting services when it was a mutual mistake
not to inform both sides in advance so they could have prevented this clash.
The beliefs are not to blame, but the way this was mishandled was a mutual conflict
and should have been prevented by checking with all parties in advance. I'm sorry this happened.
I respect both views that clearly should have been kept separate by choosing a location without such conflicts.
My best wishes and prayers to the family, friends, and community
that they resolve this in good faith and not stir or incite any harsh feelings
that isn't the best way to send someone off to rest in peace.
It is better to forgive, make peace and heal,
so those personal sacrifices made for sake of restoring good faith relations
become an offering in honor of loved ones passing on to the next world.
Then the Pastor waited till the service had begun to cancel it, to cause as much pain and anguish to the mourners as possible.
Fuck, 'forgive and forget', the Pastor is a homophobic asshole gaming the system for profit. It is easy to say 'forgive and forget' when it isn't a funeral of someone close to you.
The part about leaving judgment to God doesn't apply to one's own self. We are supposed to judge our own actions. The pastor was correct in not committing what would be in his mind, a sin.
How can they extort money from a church that didn't perform a service, and didn't spend a cent, and had pocketed the money for 2 weeks in the bank.Why wasnt it at the funeral home to begin with? She didnt go to church... inevitably Preacher would have said something that angered them anyway....... just seems like poor planning .... or an effort to manufacture a story
Ding Ding Ding--we have a winner.
The minister was wrong for doing what he did, but I suspect that he played right into the hands of people looking to make some kind of anti-religion statement, among other things.
The most telling statement from the article is "Collier's friends say they still haven't been reimbursed by New Hope Ministry for the cost of the funeral" There is no reason for the church to pay for a funeral for somebody. They seemingly are just trying to extort money from a church by shaming it out of them as best as I can tell.
Thanks, LuddlyI don't find this story at all surprising. Its exactly the opposite of what Jesus taught but its also what we read every day from the "christians" here.
Admittedly I was a lawyer for more than 30 years until I despised people too much to continue. But where did you ever get the idea I was a doctor? Is that one of your delusions?The part about leaving judgment to God doesn't apply to one's own self. We are supposed to judge our own actions. The pastor was correct in not committing what would be in his mind, a sin.
"We are supposed to judge our own actions."
Check out the telephone poll in the eye of our lying, drunken doctor/lawyer/dog washer.
The part about leaving judgment to God doesn't apply to one's own self. We are supposed to judge our own actions. The pastor was correct in not committing what would be in his mind, a sin.