Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet Of All Her Excuses Not To Have Sex

[thereisnospoon]

Dude, she's just not that into you

Yet SHE is the one who said "yes" to the ring..
Irony?

 

[thereisnospoon]

spreadsheet.....(snicker)

Oh this guy is lucky every feminist is not looking for him so they can shoot him....
On planet Female, men DO NOT ever expose the "code"....

 

[Sgt_Gath]

You didn't address the issue. Which is, again, that you heard only one side and decided there is no other.

If you had been paying attention (I know your Right Brained people struggle with that ) you would see that I have addressed it several times.

She's already given her side of the story. She doesn't deny any of it.

She simply accuses him of being passive aggressive.

Considering the fact that her response to that was to be actively aggressive, by posting the whole thing online for the public to see, I really can't imagine that she will get a better response out of him.

Again, you sidestepped the question.

HOW does an anonymous internet post make a 'public spectacle' of a person who is never identified? What's this guy's name? Where does he work? Or live?

And back up the paragraph -- it's a spreadsheet about sex. Who was mocking who?

Did you even read the article?

The wife posted the spreadsheet under the username "throwwwwaway29." The husband also blatantly told the wife that he "wouldn't miss her" while she was gone when he sent her the document, and hasn't returned any of her calls since.

If that's not a pretty clear "this is over" message, I'm not sure what it is.

Frankly, even if it wasn't before, the fact that she's spun the whole thing into a national news story probably turned it into one.

 

[dilloduck]

Exactly! If she has sex with her husband once a week, is she shirking her 'duties'? What is the minimum number of times per week she is expected to have sex?

The answer is zero. She is not property. The husband does not own her, and has no right at all to demand sex from her.

Does she own his penis ?

Does he own the rights to her vagina?

Never mind, Noomi. I was silly to ask you anything. What was I thinking ?

 

[thereisnospoon]

If she is having to make that many excuses, he's the one with the problem....either he is a sorry ass lover, or, he doesn't know how to pick women......

So making excuses is ok, but being honest is not?
People that avoid the potentially unpleasant with evasiveness and outright lying are the root cause of societal breakdown...

 

[Noomi]

Dude, she's just not that into you

Yet SHE is the one who said "yes" to the ring..
Irony?

She said yes to marriage, not 'Yes, you now gain control over my vagina'.

 

[Sgt_Gath]

Sex occurs before a marriage, sex does not make a marriage, nor should it be required of couples.

Are you seriously trying to claim that sex is irrelevant to marriage?

 

[thereisnospoon]

"Non-Verbal"

Yep.. The "roll over"....Back facing partner.

 

[PixieStix]

Yeah, well. Those 2 definitely are not compatible. They had big dreams and it turned into a nightmare. Seems they hate each other

 

[thereisnospoon]

He makes up spread sheets about their sex life or lack of it and he thinks she is the problem?

Again, He is the problem? Explain

He may or may not be the problem; most likely he would not be the whole problem. They have issues though. It is ridiculous to think that if your wife refuses to have sex with you 27 times, one day after another, that it is her that is the problem. You have to ask yourself why she doesn't want to do something she should enjoy and look forward to.

So, to ask your question but in reverse: explain why she is the problem?

In my view, people who make excuses for not doing something ARE the problem...
Excuses are like assholes. Everybody's got one but the rest of us are not interested.
Excuses are dishonesty.

 

[dilloduck]

Yeah, well. Those 2 definitely are not compatible. They had big dreams and it turned into a nightmare. Seems they hate each other

The bedroom is the first place that all relationship problems surface. ( unless you're dining nude of course )

 

[thereisnospoon]

Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet Of All Her Excuses Not To Have Sex

If I were married to a man with whom I wanted to fore-go sex, I would be divorcing him. Period!

Probably the best course of action for this relationship....On the surface, it appears doomed

 

[PixieStix]

Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet Of All Her Excuses Not To Have Sex

If I were married to a man with whom I wanted to fore-go sex, I would be divorcing him. Period!

Probably the best course of action for this relationship....On the surface, it appears doomed

Especially since all their dirty laundry has been publicized

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[thereisnospoon]

As a Christian, we are supposed to give ourselves to our spouse, in fulfilling our marital obligation.

As a practical matter, people who routinely avoid sex with their spouse, often end up with unhappy marriages. The bitterness and lack of affection, will spill over into other things. People getting angry in their marriages over really dumb problems, in many cases in actually the result of the lack of affection in the bedroom. It's hard to be bitter over stupid issues, with someone you are routinely extremely intimate with. Not so much, when you are rarely intimate with them.

The other side, is that at some point, if the husband doesn't ditch the wife, he'll eventually switch off. He'll just shut down. This is why 20% of all married couples, live in sexless marriages.

Now of course there are other factors, like physical problems, that prevent sex. But generally, when a girl shuts down her husband enough times, he'll switch off. Then later in life, after the kids are largely out of the house, or gone, suddenly she wakes up sexually again, but he couldn't care less. He's been switched off for so long, it's not even on his radar.

This is why you see movies like Hope Springs, where the disconnected husband, and the sex starved wife, desperately seeking the attention she got when they were younger.... and duh... having sex.

Where do you think the Cougar phenomenon came from? These older chicks switch back on, while their shunned husband does not.

My opinion? And this is just my opinion, so who cares what I think? I think either spouse should never turn down the other to have sex. Unless obviously, one is being abusive or, you actually are sick, or one is hooked on porn, and wants some sick twisted crap. But otherwise, you should take up your spouse every time they want sex.

OMG You are completely blaming the woman. How Christian of you. Who would have your brand of Christianity?

Way to miss the point.
Now go put some ice on the bruise you gave yourself from that knee jerk reaction to the OP.

 

[Noomi]

Sex occurs before a marriage, sex does not make a marriage, nor should it be required of couples.

Are you seriously trying to claim that sex is irrelevant to marriage?

It is not relevant to making a relationship work and nor is it required in a relationship.

 

[PixieStix]

 

[Sgt_Gath]

It is not relevant to making a relationship work and nor is it required in a relationship.

 

[thereisnospoon]

Dude, she's just not that into you

Yet SHE is the one who said "yes" to the ring..
Irony?

She said yes to marriage, not 'Yes, you now gain control over my vagina'.

And I stated this where?
It comes as no surprise you'll never aspire to be anything but a fast food worker. You aren't very bright.

 

[thereisnospoon]

Dude, she's just not that into you

Yet SHE is the one who said "yes" to the ring..
Irony?

She said yes to marriage, not 'Yes, you now gain control over my vagina'.

Hey, Sheila....Marriage is a contract. Contracts have certain terms and conditions.
And those terms and conditions cut both ways...No surprise a feminizi liberal twat like you would ignore that.

 

[Noomi]

Yet SHE is the one who said "yes" to the ring..
Irony?

She said yes to marriage, not 'Yes, you now gain control over my vagina'.

And I stated this where?
It comes as no surprise you'll never aspire to be anything but a fast food worker. You aren't very bright.

I believe the husband seems to believe his wife's vagina belongs to him.