I think think just the opposite. I think we try to keep people as young and naive as possible in our culture. In the past, and in other cultures, people were considered adults much younger than they are now in the US.
So there's the question of if they were really ready. If you don't think they were there's not much else to say. If you do think they were ready, then why, and what's changed? I think they were and I think todays kids have the capacity to be ready but aren't allowed to be ready by society.
I have a lot more to say on this, but this is enough for now. It will be interesting to see how others feel.
but at what age? that is the question.
used to be childred HAD to grow up fast because their family needed them to help work and support the family. With technology and with advancements that's no longer necessary in most communities. America is unique in that we have the ability to give our children the GIFT of their youth....many countries don't have that but I venture to guess they would if they could.
Could children be taught to be ready for sex? sure....just look in Cambodia where the child sex market is booming. Is that a future that holds any kind of promise for young people? Not IMO.
I see nothing wrong with allowing children to be children for longer. I'm quite happy that my 14 year old isn't experimenting with sex at this point. She happens to be wise enough to know that she's not ready for sex. There is no "magic" number when someone wakes up and is suddenly mature enough to have sex and be able to handle all the emotional ramifications that go along with it. Everyone comes to that point in their own time....some are 15 or 16 others are in their 20s. The key is encouraging people to WAIT for that to happen and not just rushing in to get laid and get it over with.
pre-teens and teens should be being taught that sex isn't casual and that they shouldn't just do it to do it. It's not a game.