We're talking statistically, not your rare exception. That strawman has been tried like what, a million times on this topic? Maybe more?Having GOOD parents is more important than having a "mother and father." Having a mother and father doesn't mean shit if they aren't good parents.
And pay attention here: the statistic says 90% believe it's important for a child to have BOTH a mother and father...
Therefore, according to your logic, 90% condemn you for being a single mom since you denied your child a marriage with a father in their lives.