'Revenge porn' should be a crime

[eots]

revenge porn rules..

 

[BlueGin]

This should be a no brainer. You don't let anyone take pictures of you that you wouldn't want your mother to see. Don't have a facebook account. If a boyfriend wants to see you naked, invite him over and he brings dinner. Give him a world class strip show after you have taken his phone camera away. How stupid women have become over the years. Just really really stupid.

Both men and women do stupid crap in the name of love. It is not an affliction of one sex over the other. You don't think men send women nekkid photos of themselves?

Yes, but most men don’t care – in fact many fancy the idea, as correctly noted in post #18.

You don't think a man would care if their nekkid images and contact information was posted on a revenge site?

 

[dblack]

I'd have to see the porn.

Well played. Well played, indeed.

 

[Sherry]

Both men and women do stupid crap in the name of love. It is not an affliction of one sex over the other. You don't think men send women nekkid photos of themselves?

Yes, but most men don’t care – in fact many fancy the idea, as correctly noted in post #18.

You don't think a man would care if their nekkid images and contact information was posted on a revenge site?

Most men send pics because they are proud of their shit...they most likely don't have much modesty or hang ups about nudity if they're into that stuff.

 

[BlueGin]

Yes, but most men don’t care – in fact many fancy the idea, as correctly noted in post #18.

You don't think a man would care if their nekkid images and contact information was posted on a revenge site?

Most men send pics because they are proud of their shit...they most likely don't have much modesty or hang ups about nudity if they're into that stuff.

Do you think Anthony Weiner liked his pecker pics going viral? What if they threaten your job and reputation?

 

[Sherry]

You don't think a man would care if their nekkid images and contact information was posted on a revenge site?

Most men send pics because they are proud of their shit...they most likely don't have much modesty or hang ups about nudity if they're into that stuff.

Do you think Anthony Weiner liked his pecker pics going viral? What if they it threaten your job and reputation?

Maybe...butt most men are smart enough, as should women be, to not include their face in any pics. To me it's just common sense, and the internet has been around long enough now that nobody should be claiming ignorance to what could happen if one makes that choice.

 

[BlueGin]

Most men send pics because they are proud of their shit...they most likely don't have much modesty or hang ups about nudity if they're into that stuff.

Do you think Anthony Weiner liked his pecker pics going viral? What if they it threaten your job and reputation?

Maybe...butt most men are smart enough, as should women be, to not include their face in any pics. To me it's just common sense, and the internet has been around long enough now that nobody should be claiming ignorance to what could happen if one makes that choice.

Smart people get taken advantage of everyday by scam artists, people they thought were friends,ex lovers,family members etc. People are not machines...they are flawed and they let their guard down sometimes or have a weak moment for whatever reason. It happens . This BS about how people should just deal with it, because it's the internet age is a cop out. People shouldn't have to just "deal" with predators.

 

[daveman]

The moral of the story:

Don't pose for pictures you don't want the public to see.

Yes, her ex was an asshole. But really? "It'll be for my eyes only, honey. Honest!"

They broke up for a reason. She had no business trusting the asshole.

Which is usually something you learn after you have made the leap of faith in the person unfortunately.

They had already broken up.

 

[Sherry]

Do you think Anthony Weiner liked his pecker pics going viral? What if they it threaten your job and reputation?

Maybe...butt most men are smart enough, as should women be, to not include their face in any pics. To me it's just common sense, and the internet has been around long enough now that nobody should be claiming ignorance to what could happen if one makes that choice.

Smart people get taken advantage of everyday by scam artists, people they thought were friends,ex lovers,family members etc. People are not machines...they are flawed and they let their guard down sometimes or have a weak moment for whatever reason. It happens . This BS about how people should just deal with it, because it's the internet age is a cop out. People shouldn't have to just "deal" with predators.

Actually yes, people do just have to deal with their choices...actions have consequences. If someone compromises their reputation, I don't think it should be the governments job to swoop in and save them from their poor decisions. Again, a person's photos can be released without it being tracked to anyone...so no protection is guaranteed even with some sort of law.

 

[BlueGin]

The moral of the story:

Don't pose for pictures you don't want the public to see.

Yes, her ex was an asshole. But really? "It'll be for my eyes only, honey. Honest!"

They broke up for a reason. She had no business trusting the asshole.

Which is usually something you learn after you have made the leap of faith in the person unfortunately.

They had already broken up.

I don't think so. that is not the way I read it...

"Jane" allowed her ex-boyfriend to take her naked photograph because, he assured her, it would be for his eyes only. After their breakup, the man betrayed her trust.

To me it reads she let him take the pictures...and after the break up he betrayed her trust.

 

[BlueGin]

Maybe...butt most men are smart enough, as should women be, to not include their face in any pics. To me it's just common sense, and the internet has been around long enough now that nobody should be claiming ignorance to what could happen if one makes that choice.

Smart people get taken advantage of everyday by scam artists, people they thought were friends,ex lovers,family members etc. People are not machines...they are flawed and they let their guard down sometimes or have a weak moment for whatever reason. It happens . This BS about how people should just deal with it, because it's the internet age is a cop out. People shouldn't have to just "deal" with predators.

Actually yes, people do just have to deal with their choices...actions have consequences. If someone compromises their reputation, I don't think it should be the governments job to swoop in and save them from their poor decisions. Again, a person's photos can be released without it being tracked to anyone...so no protection is guaranteed even with some sort of law.

Not true. If they want to investigate it they can get the information of exactly who uploaded the pictures from the website and go from there.

 

[Sherry]

Smart people get taken advantage of everyday by scam artists, people they thought were friends,ex lovers,family members etc. People are not machines...they are flawed and they let their guard down sometimes or have a weak moment for whatever reason. It happens . This BS about how people should just deal with it, because it's the internet age is a cop out. People shouldn't have to just "deal" with predators.

Actually yes, people do just have to deal with their choices...actions have consequences. If someone compromises their reputation, I don't think it should be the governments job to swoop in and save them from their poor decisions. Again, a person's photos can be released without it being tracked to anyone...so no protection is guaranteed even with some sort of law.

Not true. If they want to investigate it they can get the information of exactly who uploaded the pictures from the website and go from there.

There are ways around anything, but what a colossal fucking waste of resources...oh help me, my titties are being circulated around the internet because I freely gave the pics to some douche bag.

 

[daveman]

Which is usually something you learn after you have made the leap of faith in the person unfortunately.

They had already broken up.

I don't think so. that is not the way I read it...

"Jane" allowed her ex-boyfriend to take her naked photograph because, he assured her, it would be for his eyes only. After their breakup, the man betrayed her trust.

To me it reads she let him take the pictures...and after the break up he betrayed her trust.

Yup, you're right. My mistake.

 

[BlueGin]

Actually yes, people do just have to deal with their choices...actions have consequences. If someone compromises their reputation, I don't think it should be the governments job to swoop in and save them from their poor decisions. Again, a person's photos can be released without it being tracked to anyone...so no protection is guaranteed even with some sort of law.

Not true. If they want to investigate it they can get the information of exactly who uploaded the pictures from the website and go from there.

There are ways around anything, but what a colossal fucking waste of resources...oh help me, my titties are being circulated around the internet because I freely gave the pics to some douche bag.

He also supplied her name and contact information which led to sexual harrasment from multiple strangers.

There are specific agencies already in place to track down cyber stalking type crimes that will gather all of the information for law enforcement. So it's not really a waste if it gives a person in this type of situation peace of mind.

 

[Sherry]

Not true. If they want to investigate it they can get the information of exactly who uploaded the pictures from the website and go from there.

There are ways around anything, but what a colossal fucking waste of resources...oh help me, my titties are being circulated around the internet because I freely gave the pics to some douche bag.

He also supplied her name and contact information which led to sexual harrasment from multiple strangers.

There are specific agencies already in place to track down cyber stalking type crimes that will gather all of the information for law enforcement. So it's not really a waste if it gives a person in this type of situation peace of mind.

The lesson to be learned though is that once a person offers that up to anyone, and then it gets in the wrong hands and is put out there, they'll never really have peace of mind.

 

[BlueGin]

There are ways around anything, but what a colossal fucking waste of resources...oh help me, my titties are being circulated around the internet because I freely gave the pics to some douche bag.

He also supplied her name and contact information which led to sexual harrasment from multiple strangers.

There are specific agencies already in place to track down cyber stalking type crimes that will gather all of the information for law enforcement. So it's not really a waste if it gives a person in this type of situation peace of mind.

The lesson to be learned though is that once a person offers that up to anyone, and then it gets in the wrong hands and is put out there, they'll never really have peace of mind.

The peace of mind comes from taking action,talking about it and helping bring awareness and hopefully changing laws to protect people in the future. Scumbags usually don't like it when you shine the light on them,cuz...they usually don't want the whole world to know what "scumbags" they really are. Go figure. The lesson learned should be don't be a morally corrupt scumbag. Not... keep quiet and move on if you are a victim of scumbaggery.

 

[S.J.]

There should be no porn on the internet that the participating "performers" do not agree to in writing (in a legal contract). Any violations should be considered a criminal act.

 

[Sherry]

He also supplied her name and contact information which led to sexual harrasment from multiple strangers.

There are specific agencies already in place to track down cyber stalking type crimes that will gather all of the information for law enforcement. So it's not really a waste if it gives a person in this type of situation peace of mind.

The lesson to be learned though is that once a person offers that up to anyone, and then it gets in the wrong hands and is put out there, they'll never really have peace of mind.

The peace of mind comes from taking action,talking about it and helping bring awareness and hopefully changing laws to protect people in the future. Scumbags usually don't like it when you shine the light on them,cuz...they usually don't want the whole world to know what "scumbags" they really are. Go figure. The lesson learned should be don't be a morally corrupt scumbag. Not... keep quiet and move on if you are a victim of scumbaggery.

Laws won't stop the pics from being posted...personal responsibility plays the most important role.

 

[BlueGin]

The lesson to be learned though is that once a person offers that up to anyone, and then it gets in the wrong hands and is put out there, they'll never really have peace of mind.

The peace of mind comes from taking action,talking about it and helping bring awareness and hopefully changing laws to protect people in the future. Scumbags usually don't like it when you shine the light on them,cuz...they usually don't want the whole world to know what "scumbags" they really are. Go figure. The lesson learned should be don't be a morally corrupt scumbag. Not... keep quiet and move on if you are a victim of scumbaggery.

Laws won't stop the pics from being posted...personal responsibility plays the most important role.

What makes you think she doesn't take responsibility for her actions? Just because she wants the scumbag to be responsible for his?

I doubt she will do it again either.

 

[BlueGin]

There should be no porn on the internet that the participating "performers" do not agree to in writing (in a legal contract). Any violations should be considered a criminal act.

Celebrities are protected from these types of image violations. The average person should be also.