emilynghiem
Constitutionalist / Universalist
Something I never saw much of over the past year was discussion about Trump's blatant admissions of affairs with married women. I find this interesting, and it makes me wonder -- is adultery a conservative value?
For those who don't know what I'm talking about, here's Trump admitting to affairs in his book, The Art of the Comeback:
"If I told the real stories of my experiences with women, often seemingly very happily married and important women, this book would be a guaranteed best-seller."He also said:
"I have too much respect for women in general, but if I did [write about my love life], the world would take serious notice. Beautiful, famous, successful, married — I've had them all, secretly, the world's biggest names..."We also know that Donald began a sexual relationship with his second wife, Marla Maples, while he was still married to his first wife, Ivanka, in the months after she said he raped her.
We also know that Christian evangelists report being "very excited" about Trump's win.
Is this because adultery, affairs and sex outside of marriage are conservative values?
SYTFE
No adultery is clearly against standards not only in Christianity but other beliefs and natural laws as well.
Forgiveness is supposed to be a Christian practice.
However, it is supposed to be a gift to everyone,
not just for political expedience to justify supporting one candidate over another.
Isn't a person supposed to ask for forgiveness? Aren't they supposed to admit the wrong in their ways? Not brag about it?
Dear Lewdog
Yes, and most of that is done in private where people have full freedom to change
and aren't pressured to put up an image or front for others.
There is a right way to do this and Trump did in one instance:
When confronted with some of the crude offensive sexist remarks he made, he did apologize
and he said he was committed to being a better person.
So that is the sincere way to ask forgiveness. And to be Thankful and open to receiving correction.
When this is sincere, and you ask help of all people, then you get the support
you need to make that work. Especially when you are truly grateful, people will help you.
If you surround yourself with people enabling you to continue the problematic behavior,
that is the most common way I've seen people set themselves up to fail.
As believers, the point is to uplift and support each other to stay ON TRACK,
NOT to stumble and gain points from others' failure as politics rewards that kind of undercutting tactic.
So in running for President, there are time both Obama and now Trump
felt compelled to say all kinds of things in the media, some that are clearly not workable.
I'd rather hold both to the better ideals and ideas they put forth that are good solutions,
and get away from this habit of telling and selling propaganda in the media that stirs publicity and gets voters to the polls.
With that said, did Trump REALLY apologize or did he say what he thought he needed to say to help get him elected? The fact he had to explain his apology by saying it was a private conversation that was "locker room" talk, tells me he wasn't sincere.
Well Lewdog if his pastors are worth anything,
they should hold him to his apology and make sure he stays on the right track.
Or whichever friends or advisors he trusts and respects to listen to.
If they have his best interests in mind, they'd hold him to corrections!