Delta4Embassy
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Often hear Bible thumpers screaching how sex is a sin. But Judaism's all about making little Jews from passages of "Be fruitful and multiply... (Genesis 1:28)" to "10. If he takes another [wife] for himself, he shall not diminish her sustenance, her clothing, or her marital relations. - Exodus 21) and the promise of G-d to Abram "17. That I will surely bless you, and I will greatly multiply your seed as the stars of the heavens and as the sand that is on the seashore, and your descendants will inherit the cities of their enemies. (Genesis 22)"
Hyperbole aside, that's still a lot of sex going on. Of the 24 specific sexual sins, most are concerning incest. 4 are things like no male-male sodomy (curiously, while very specific elsewhere, it doesn't mention female-female sodomy, while mentioning females being forbidden from other sexual things no beastiality, no sex with women during their menstrual period, and no male castration (be it human or beast And no adultery (which is spelled out to mean no sex with a married woman if not your own wife.
Interestingly premarital sex isn't mentioned. But sex is one of 3 ways to establish a marriage. Sex, exchanging of a coin (or in later times a ring,) and/or a written contract. The Torah/Tanach doesn't detail any sort of ceremony being required to officiate a marriage so it's assumed if you have sex with someone, you're in effect marrying them. And thus any sex with someone else may violate the no adultery commandment.
This is the Jewish side of things. If not Jewish, it doesn't bind you.
Would add that newer traditions of Judaism like Reform not only ignore the no male sodomy commandment, but even perform gay weddings (as is the case with the local Reform synagogue.) Though I don't agree with modern revisionist traditions of any sort, it's worth mentioning.
And from recent news stories, a Methodist pastor is in hot water for officiating his gay son's wedding at his church.
(full disclosure: as a bisexual myself, while I don't think it's ok for Man to change things supposedly from G-d, as to this particular commandment, I haven't broken it in over 20 years, but the orientation and desire is still present. It isn't that I'm resisting so much as just not that highly sexed at 42 as I once was.)
Hyperbole aside, that's still a lot of sex going on. Of the 24 specific sexual sins, most are concerning incest. 4 are things like no male-male sodomy (curiously, while very specific elsewhere, it doesn't mention female-female sodomy, while mentioning females being forbidden from other sexual things no beastiality, no sex with women during their menstrual period, and no male castration (be it human or beast And no adultery (which is spelled out to mean no sex with a married woman if not your own wife.
Interestingly premarital sex isn't mentioned. But sex is one of 3 ways to establish a marriage. Sex, exchanging of a coin (or in later times a ring,) and/or a written contract. The Torah/Tanach doesn't detail any sort of ceremony being required to officiate a marriage so it's assumed if you have sex with someone, you're in effect marrying them. And thus any sex with someone else may violate the no adultery commandment.
This is the Jewish side of things. If not Jewish, it doesn't bind you.
Would add that newer traditions of Judaism like Reform not only ignore the no male sodomy commandment, but even perform gay weddings (as is the case with the local Reform synagogue.) Though I don't agree with modern revisionist traditions of any sort, it's worth mentioning.
And from recent news stories, a Methodist pastor is in hot water for officiating his gay son's wedding at his church.
(full disclosure: as a bisexual myself, while I don't think it's ok for Man to change things supposedly from G-d, as to this particular commandment, I haven't broken it in over 20 years, but the orientation and desire is still present. It isn't that I'm resisting so much as just not that highly sexed at 42 as I once was.)