No, I don't want gays to be able to adopt to begin with. I don't believe in equal treatment.[
The role of the the state should be to promote procreation and a stable family environment for the children of these unions. Legalizing gay marriage serves no purpose towards this end and incentivizes a degenerate and destructive lifestyle.
I think you are thinking of something completely different from marriage.
Because marriage right now doesn't promote procreation or a stable family environment for children.
Marriage only legally binds two people together.
Those two people can choose to try to have children or chose to not try to have children- and the state doesn't care.
Those two people can have children- and not marry- and the state doesn't care.
Those two people can be married, and have children- and decide to divorce- and the state doesn't care.
Really- if you want marriage to promote procreation and a stable family environment you needs something radically different than current legal marriage. There is nothing about current marriage law that accomplishes those things.
Hell Wisconsin requires first cousins to prove that they cannot have children together before they can marry- i.e. just the opposite of what you say the role of the State should be.
But if you want to treat same gender couples the same as opposite gender couples who cannot- or do not want to have children- and only allow marriage to those couples who are physically capable of procreation, and commit to having children, and become divorced if they don't have children- but can't divorce if they do have children- well that would be equal at least.
But right now all you are in essence saying is that you don't want the children of gay couples to have married parents.
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Well there we go.
You start from a position of wanting to deny children parents- if they happen to be gay.
And you don't believe in equal treatment.
You don't want the children of gay couples to have married parents.
In the words of Justice Kennedy- the likely swing vote when this reaches the Supreme Court:
"There is an immediate legal injury and that's the voice of these children," he said. "There's some 40,000 children in California, according to the Red Brief, that live with same-sex parents, and they want their parents to have full recognition and full status. The voice of those children is important in this case, don't you think?"
You are telling Justice Kennedy "Hell no"