Lysistrata
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I wish I would have stayed a virgin and gotten married.I do not believe that you kept the rule of preserving your virginity for your marriage bed, but this is the rule of your faith as was told to me.
I don't believe you clicked the link I posted.
I did. But it does not answer my question. Does the Christian faith teach that one should not have sex before marriage and then not cheat on one's marriage partner, or not? This is a simple thing. Frankly, I do see reasons for having sex before marriage, but let's be firm on what we believe and live by. Is one's virginity a "gift" to one's bride or groom after taking vows or not?
It's better if it is, but not absolutely a hard rule. It's better from a common sense standpoint, anyway.
People that are virgins until wedding night tend to stay together more.
But this is not the the majority of us, now is it? I happen to be among those folks who have reserved my sexuality for the few persons deserving of it. It is a spiritual thing. Think back on those with whom you have had sexual relations. Did you commit to them? Did you commit to your Creator?
Just find a quiet place were you can have s sit-down with your Creator. We are all on the same boat as you are. Let us all acknowledge this.