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I think it's mistaken to assume you know what is considered cheating by other people in their own private relationships. Not everybody's standards are the same.Stealing jewelry is stealing. Having sex with someone else's lover is not stealing. Like I said, it would depend on which party I was closest to. And they would have to be very close friends before I would butt in.I see. So tell me something. If, instead of cheating on her, E and L had decided instead to steal J's jewelry and hock it, would that ALSO not have been up to anyone else to "decide right and wrong on"? I'm just curious as to what point you think you have a responsibility to your friends to protect them from being harmed. Myself, I would want my friends to be "busybodies" when it comes to protecting me.
Oh, okay, so causing harm mentally and emotionally is okay, but materially is a big no-no?
I'd call cheating a theft of trust, at the very least.
I'm just auditing so It doesn't even matter for me.I saw too many letters in the OP. I stopped reading 'cuz it looked like a surprise math test.
It was a multiple choice quiz. I copied off the person next to me.
Well, I know it wasn't my paper you copied off of. I left them blank.
I sure hope this doesn't count toward the final grade.
I think it's mistaken to assume you know what is considered cheating by other people in their own private relationships. Not everybody's standards are the same.Stealing jewelry is stealing. Having sex with someone else's lover is not stealing. Like I said, it would depend on which party I was closest to. And they would have to be very close friends before I would butt in.
Oh, okay, so causing harm mentally and emotionally is okay, but materially is a big no-no?
I'd call cheating a theft of trust, at the very least.
If J was a close friend of mine I'd tell her. If not or if both L and J were close friends of mine I'd keep out of it. If L were my friend, I'd certainly not tell J.
Mostly, though, I don't get too involved with the sex lives of teenagers.
No shit. If you're hanging around 16 yr olds because they're sexually involved with your friends, you have a serious problem somewhere down the line.
Are you telling me that you think ethics differ depending on the ages of people involved?
I'm having a hard time keeping the story straight in my head and I think it's because we aren'y using real name.
I suggest B become renoite
D become Mountain Man
The 16 year old whose intitial I already forgot become Amanda
L can be Liability since he's right here and J can be JenT.
Not only that, it's illegal to have sex with a 16 y.o. So someone's in trouble.
Are you telling me that you think ethics differ depending on the ages of people involved?
Teens are not old enough to have become involved in serious long term committed relationships. Nor should they. They experiment and make mistakes and learn from it all. It's best not to interfere.
Are you so privy to their sex lives that you know none of them were using condoms?By the way, Anguille, how does your "none of my business" scenario account for the other issue I raised, namely the risk of disease? In this day and age, cheating on your partner isn't just tacky and mean, it's a health risk. By keeping his silence and allowing J to continue her relationship with an unfaithful man, he allowed her to be possibly exposed to disease. How does that factor in?
Not only that, it's illegal to have sex with a 16 y.o.
Are you so privy to their sex lives that you know none of them were using condoms?By the way, Anguille, how does your "none of my business" scenario account for the other issue I raised, namely the risk of disease? In this day and age, cheating on your partner isn't just tacky and mean, it's a health risk. By keeping his silence and allowing J to continue her relationship with an unfaithful man, he allowed her to be possibly exposed to disease. How does that factor in?
You reported a 19 year old and a 16 year old for having a consensual sexual relationship?Not only that, it's illegal to have sex with a 16 y.o. So someone's in trouble.
Oh, like I said, we've already reported the little bastard.
Are you so privy to their sex lives that you know none of them were using condoms?By the way, Anguille, how does your "none of my business" scenario account for the other issue I raised, namely the risk of disease? In this day and age, cheating on your partner isn't just tacky and mean, it's a health risk. By keeping his silence and allowing J to continue her relationship with an unfaithful man, he allowed her to be possibly exposed to disease. How does that factor in?
Are you so ignorant that you believe condoms provide 100% protection against all diseases? Even the ones they DO protect against have a failure rate, and some - like HPV - aren't prevented by condoms at all.
You had me scared there for a minute.Celibate video-game obsessed geeks? What kind of wacky bizarro world are you living in, woman?!
