TheProgressivePatriot
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No it does not help. Give it a rest. You are so tedious !!It's apparent that you STILL do not get the concept that sexual orientation and "lifestyle " are different things. Look, any competent adult who is gay thinks that they want to change is free to try, and it will likely end badly and unhappily if they are in fact truly gay. However, no one need your preaching about spiritual healing.Dear ProgressivePatriot
RE: "
Are YOU aware of the fact that when you speak of “healing “with respect to changing sexual orientation from gay to straight that you are being ignorant and bigoted towards gays?"
NO because
1. it does not apply to people who are already how they are naturally and aren't going to change.
2. it EQUALLY applies to people who WERE male and came out female or who WERE heterosexual and came out homosexual.
I am NOT excluding anyone's experience or path and NOT "forcing" this on anyone. My whole point is that spiritual healing is NOT forced on anyone, and is the same process used when people come out EITHER gay OR straight OR transgender etc.
Completely by free and natural choice or it isn't real.
Ironically PP you are the only one I see being EXCLUSIVE.
Because YOU are saying that NO CASES of homosexuality can change and it's NEVER a choice.
I didn't exclude cases where people don't change, but YOU EXCLUDED cases where people did.
Do you have any idea how offensively wrong that is to deny the experiences of people who HAVE changed?
I wasn't denying anything about people who are naturally transgendered, gay etc.
You were the only one being exclusive here, do you recognize that?
That I *AM* accommodating all the cases, but YOU were not. YOU were excluding as if those people's experiences don't exist and don't count!
Dear ProgressivePatriot
We are clearly talking about two different things, and even two or four different sets of people.
Here, I made a chart for you to compare all the cases I am including vs. you:
View attachment 84985
As for people changing their lifestyle on the outside
vs changing their orientation on the inside,
Do you say this about people who came out homosexual?
That they only changed their outside lifestyle?
The transgender friend who came out to me online
changed internally, forgave and let go all the anger rejection
and resentment about Christianity teaching negative things
about homosexuality and gender. And only after totally
changing perspectives and coming out as "her true self"
THEN "she" changed her outward appearance and way of identifying.
So this internal change happened first as the real key change.
It isn't just dressing up on the outside.
If you can understand this, with a transgender person,
could you understand the similar process when someone
changes from formerly identifying as homosexual,
then changing inside and out to embracing their natural
self as heterosexual?
Does this help? Thanks ProgressivePatriot
If you can be openminded that Transgender and Homosexual
people cannot help but be how they are, when they come out as themselves,
why can't we also include people who come out as straight after living as gay?