Skylar
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I think there are community standards of 'respectful'.
That's a problem. When your "community" starts setting standards for what is or isn't "respectful" according to nothing more than an "interpretation" you get situations like this one. The standards of "respect" in this community aren't static. They always shift to suit whatever the community's interpretation of "respect" happens to be at that point and time, and believe you me, outside influences, er, influence, this greatly.
And instead of encouraging rational reactions, these standards bring about unreasonable standards of "respect"; ergo, unreasonable reactions and a hypersensitivity to otherwise innocuous things, like costumes.
Respectful certainly has subjective components, specifically the interpretation of community standards.
A perfect illustration of my previous point.
People should learn to .... do what you want but harm none. Wearing ethnic or costumes is not offensive.
Lets say that it is offense? Then what? I reject the premise that offense is harm. Or that it somehow mandates that that I do what the offended party demand.
Offense is a bucket with no bottom. If offense is the currency of controlling a situation.....then the most oversensitive, most offend-able, most wildly emotive person controls every situation. Especially when 'offensive' is a self validating, subjective term.......that requires objective action of others.
Where you must do as I say....because I feel you do.
Its oppressive. It not only encourages but virtually guarantees wild overreaction.