Ernie S.
Diamond Member
I haven't gone so far as you both have in planning my funeral, but for many years, I have known what I wanted, songs I wanted played, how I was going to be seen off, etc. You want to get everything in order before you die - so no one else takes control and does things you would never want.
You're still too young to be concerned, although I know it can happen at any time. But, once you pass 50, I think you start giving it more serious thought. You put it off, but you finally decide it's time. I think when my friend's brother-in-law died recently, and he was only 57, it made us realize that maybe we didn't need to keep puttint it off......
I too want to be cremated. I see very little point in taking up space the living could use.
When my son passed away, I got the idea that I should buy some property near a lake or stream and turn it into a park, selling off cemetery plot sized chunks to subscribers who would be able to use the facilities for cook outs and memorial parties.
It just seems wrong to invest thousands for a tiny piece of ground where your survivors will dread going, always speak in hushed tones and generally dread going to. I want the party to continue, long after I'm gone.