ricechickie
Gold Member
It is both, thank you for getting it.
Going by "reputation," over the behavior of an individual actually in front of you, is part and parcel of white privilege, and of course, racism. See, racism and white privilege are two sides of the same coin.
I have, through my own experience and the experience of others, learned that fire will generally burn when touched. Perhaps this fire in front of me now will be different though. Shall I test it out?
In all seriousness though, I get what you are saying. But you have to understand too that you would be a fool to put your life in jeopardy by ignoring real averages, or even commonly held stereotypes that might be wrong. When it comes to personal safety or the safety of those you feel obligated to protect, you err on the side of caution. If there is no threat to your well being you can luxuriate in the freedom to cast aside stereotypes and critically examine the individual you are dealing with, and in those situations you would be a fool to rely on stereotypes to inform your decisions.
I object to your thought that "Going by 'reputation,' over the behavior of an individual actually in front of you, is[...] racism."
It can be racism if race is what you are basing your decisions on, but if the general appearance of the individual is what you are examining, race doesn't have to play a role at all. The "thug" look is intimidating no matter the race of the individual employing it. It is intended to be so. When a person dresses or acts in a manner that is intended to intimidate, you are altogether justified in exercising caution in dealing with that person without even considering the race of the person in question.
It's really cute how you compare certain groups of people to fire. I think there must be many more variants of people than there are of fire.
I don't put my life in jeopardy, but then again, I don't assume that I'm safe with a strange white man in a dark alley, while a strange black man in a dark alley would terrify me.
THAT would be stupid.