I believe you just described yourself.You thinking you know how people feel is because of your narcissism and insecurity. Theres resources online probably for dealing with each, but engaging in phony sanctimoneous behaviors isnt quite gunna get ya there. Its probably a coping mechanism, so I suppose its how you rationalize your phoniness.If I felt like GT did, I wouldn't be afraid to say it.
It's pretty obvious how you feel, GT.