The godsquad wastes time lashing out or covering up. Much of this thread is off topic because religious types lose driving them to make the argument about tangent or seemingly tangent side issues.
Reading the last several pages one wouldn't know this thread is titled...
why not just sit on your butt and pray?
Why not? Because praying is nonsense. It is part of the FRAUD of "faith". Those that claim faith is the answer can blame even those that pray that "their faith was not strong enough".
It is a familiar scam.
"Hello I represent the Universal Contest and you have won the grand prize but you must pay a small fee to cover handling and processing to claim your prize."
First the victim is told that they are special and there is a god that takes a special interest in them. All the victim needs to do is give up on reason and agree that this "god" hears their prayers and depending on the sincerity of faith in that concept will be rewarded by an answer to said prayers.
No sane person can ever believe convincingly in this concept so by self incrimination never truly expects to claim the grand prize.
"Maybe my faith wasn't pure enough" Duh...Ya think?
It takes a great scam to convince the victim that it is their fault they didn't recieve the grand prize.
Yeah, the thread has wandered. As you noted, prayer is largely a matter of "influence peddling" with the gods.
Religionists need to define their terms here. Aren't they in effect suggesting bargaining with the gawds? Do they believe the gawds will reward them with something in exchange for a specific behavior?
As to the efficacy of prayer, perceived from a position of meditation I would not deny that it clears the mind -- but prayer from a theistic perspective is not meditation, it is an asserted communication that has some actual real specific effect on human issues. This remains totally undemonstrated except in the following manner -- it is a very powerful tool to coerce behavior, which is why (seemingly), the more fanatical or fundamental a religion is, the more reliant on the asserted efficacy of prayer you're liable to find.
When prayers aren't answered, I know religionists will sometimes say, "Well, that's not god's fault" or something similar, but the point is this: prayer doesn't actually work (at least it remains asserted and unproven that it does). Clearing the mind? Allowing a person to collect their thoughts? Giving the illusion of comfort (which may be indistinguishable from comfort itself), yes to all of those. But does it actually work? No, it can be shown over and over that it does not. And the fact is, many people actually rely on it, usually to their disappointment... or worse.