emilynghiem
Constitutionalist / Universalist
I am amazed lately at the anger that is being exhibited by many of the posters on USMB. While not exclusively so, it seems much of the anger if coming from the conservative and RW stance. I just don't understand why the elevated levels of anger. We are here to rationally debate different topics and issues. No reason to insert anger into the conversations.
Does anyone have any idea why?
Thanks
Hi Jim: I went through this same thing when Bush was in office. I could not speak to some of my left wing friends without getting my EAR yelled off, screamed at, and I am STILL BLAMED TODAY as being in bed with Bush cronies or all kinds of namecalling.
I agree with the left on reimbursement and corrections owed to taxpayers, but I still got an earful and verbally abused by my own colleagues for even SUGGESTING to work WITH both parties to enforce points of agreement and correction. The worst was falsely assumed of me, and still is,
for wanting to collaborate between all parties to address what is owed to the taxpayers and how to delegate each party to fix their own programs.
I am a prochoice liberal Democrat, and I was surrounded by a bunch of stressed out, freaked out people, who couldn't focus on corrections to the problems with corrupt war policy and spending, but were herded into supporting whatever it took to "get rid of Bush."
Now I see the opposite is happening. Instead of solving the problems, the politicians are abusing the conflict for votes and campaigns against each other's parties! This is keeping the people in a constant state of division, distrust and projected blame at each other.
I believe this process is from the shoe being on the other foot.
Whatever blame game and outrage at Bush was never acknowledged as real objections but were written off as Bush haters who are UNAMERICAN and only interested in their own political agenda
has come back the other way, and now people are asking what this hatred, is it because Obama is black and these people are just RACIST.
So the more the people seem complacent and simply dismiss the objections as unfounded,
it makes the petitioners and protests even more distressed those grievances are not heard, but blamed on race the same way objections against Bush policies were "invalid."
I believe the anger and angst could be put aside if we set up means of
hearing out what the problems are and how can they be addressed,
instead of just rallying against each other's parties with verbal warfare in the media and legal warfare in the courts, or political warfare in elections and legislative campaigns.
The anger is mutual when people's SINCERE objections and grievances are "written off"
and people are called NAMES and blamed as the problem. Either UNAMERICAN COMMUNISTS if you have issues with Bush policies (which even many Republican conservative and Constitutionalists on all sides also had with his use of executive and military authority), or RACIST HATERS if you have issues with Obama policies (which even the far left and liberal Constitutionalists have and not just conservatives).
Both sides felt BLAMED as the VICTIM, which escalates the outrage.
The saddest thing, is I don't believe people MEAN to do this or understand.
People sincerely believe the others are just being political and do not have valid
beliefs or objections to defend!
So that is the only reason I am not as angered, I am more DEPRESSED.
I am in GRIEF for both sides of both issues with both Presidents seen as imposing
overreaching policies at taxpayers' expense.
I have been fighting depression for months, it comes and goes.
But when people start namecalling me, calling me a liar, and punishing me "without defense or due process" to prove any of their accusations, yes, I get angry
and have to go think of something else. I haven't been able to get work done I wanted
for about a year now because this whole thing has been too disturbing and depressing.
I believe if people understood the grief is MUTUAL
that we have done this to each other, taking turns,
maybe we could see where it is coming from and agree to avoid this in the future.
By working out our objections and resolutions directly with each other
and NOT let politicians exploit our conflicts to go abuse us this way!
I really blame the political parties for profiting off these objections, abusing them to name call and incite fear division and hateful rejection and distrust, instead of resolving them
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