If George Carlin was still alive, he would just be tearing this issue up. Marriage Equality? That's like Pet Sincerity parking or Oval circularity day. The Idea of gays needing a special right to marry each other is so contrived as to be a joke. Why take this seriously?
In a way you are correct- gays don't need a special right- they just are asking to be treated the same as heterosexual couples.
Marriage is marriage- what same gender couples are fighting for is being treated legally the same as my wife and I.