Sunshine
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- Dec 17, 2009
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It is never the bullies who get in trouble. Have you noticed that? If a child brings a weapon to school and says he brought it because other pupils have threatened him or there is someone he is afraid of, that never gets investigated. The kid who is in daily fear of his life is the one who gets punished. I think schools are scraping the bottom of the barrel for teachers and administrators. But then they have been for more than half a century. Anyone with enough sense to be a teacher has enough sense to be something else.
I will admit that I was a bit of a bully in high school (I know, a real shocker.)
I really wasn't that bad, and tended to bully more on peer pressure than because it was my natural way. but I did bully kids. Most kids in high school were smaller and weaker than I. And I was an athlete. The Wrestling Team was especially bad, we did pick on others - I honestly wasn't the instigator, but I went along with it.
I never really thought about it much until much later in life, when my youngest daughter confided in my that she contemplated suicide because she was bullied so much in high school. THEN I finally pondered my own behavior back in the day - and wasn't very proud of it.
I saw Bette Midler on a talk show several years back. She told of her group bullying a little Japanese boy in school. Once day they locked him inside an old trunk and left him there several hours before letting him out. She cried when she told that he suicide right after that. I think anyone who has bullied a child/adolescent to the point of suicide they should do some very serious soul searching. Clearly she had.
At some point people really should contemplate their own behavior. There was a group of boys who were not very nice to me in grade school. I wouldn't call their behavior actual bullying like they do today, but they set out to upset me every day and when they did it was mission accomplished. It took a couple years to learn that if I just laughed at them they would stop because they weren't getting the gratification. And to their amazement I wouldn't date ANY of them in high school~! Now they are super nice all the time and are all FB friends. One of them attends church where my brother goes and asks about me every week. I think it is their guilty consciences at work on them.
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