Very reasonable. You just can't say that you are so traumatized that you will never have sex again.hmmm no intimacy wouldn't be the goal of it, it'd be about the act of sex itself rather than the specific partner... So I guess I'm saying that anyone I could trust would work, which could indeed have been, at least when I was younger, a purely sexual friend, rather than having to be a boyfriend or anything like that. Hell, it could probably even be just a friend I trusted but wasn't attracted to that way... It's not about the relationship, or the intimacy of said relationship, so much as sex feeling "good and safe" rather than "bad and dangerous."
Now in this case, I mean she's saying she was a virgin and from a psychological view point, I /can/ see her wanting to "give" it to someone rather than having it "taken," even if it is merely symbolic act after the fact...