Missouri_Mike
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Any act that ends in unwanted pregnancy is rape? Are you serious?Hi AzMike I'm glad to see that we agree on more points than we disagree on.
Sorry for giving the wrong impression otherwise.
I think as you come to see how much we agree, you won't see the need
to throw in derogatory terms like "FU off" and referring to certain women as "whores" that just makes you look bad. I can look past that, but some people
can't so I hope you will be more careful in the future not to discredit yourself
by distracting from valid points you make by throwing in unnecessary language like that.
Please see below. Thanks!
1- Men should be accountable, nobody ever claimed they shouldn't be. The problem is when you have a societal norm of whores and men who court them for the fifteen minutes they have to in order to get laid you have these kinds of problems. There's no law you can pass to replace morality. Rape is already against the law. Not sure why you added that in there.
Great we agree, and clearly we do not want to see either men or women abusing the law to accuse the other wrongly if they are acting irresponsibly.
Regarding rape, was I was offering was to expand the degrees of "statutory rape" or have other degrees of rape, where ANY act that leads to unwanted pregnancy,
unwanted children, or unwanted abortion by either partner, can be used to file complaints of some form of "rape" or "relationship abuse" so BOTH partners
are held responsible, not just the woman.
How is it fair to punish the woman and not the man for abortion if
the pregnancy is caused by rape, incest or other coercion?
You are quick to point out cases of women abusing sexual relations
when they don't intend to have the child; but what about men?
Since this level of 'relationship abuse' starts on a private level that is not the jurisdiction of govt to police, that is why it is going unchecked.
What I suggest is that local communities, such as college and school districts,
come up with a policy to address ANY complaints of "relationship abuse" with
required counseling for BOTH parties until the issues are resolved, so regardless
who was the victim, who was the abuser or the abused, who was acting promiscuous or not, the problem is resolved to the satisfaction of the complaining parties. I believe that by holding both partners accountable for any complaints
of abuse, this would catch either men or women who are abusing relationships.
If we can intervene on this level, that would prevent all the focus and weight of the laws disproportionately targeting the women after pregnancy occurs.
2- There is no such thing as a gay marriage. Marriage is a religious based bond between one man and one woman. The government has no reason to be involved whatsoever. No marriage laws should exist and nobody should have to put up with the government defining it. Homosexuals can join together in whatever in the hell they think they have. It's not a marriage and never will be since the normal people can also have their own religion based marriage between a man and a woman without the government interfering. The problem is and always has been the government insisting on making the definitions.
I agree it should be kept out of govt since it is a private matter of personal beliefs.
I do believe churches and private groups/individuals have equal right to conduct marriages according to their beliefs as a spiritual ceremony.
With beliefs, if people in a district or state AGREE on laws, then sure, they can have those even if they involve religious beliefs; but if they cannot agree, they either need to keep laws neutral and all-inclusive, or keep the issues private and out of govt hands.
3- I vote for simply making people who are citizens able to vote with an ID. I don't see a reason for your other bullshit. Party or not a party show a fucking ID that proves you are a citizen and you get to vote. If you can't do that fuck off.
I happen to agree that using ID is the simplest way to verify Voter ID.
You are arguing with the wrong person, and I have no idea who the "FU off"
is directed at because I don't disagree with you.
The reason I bring up Voter ID is that it serves as a way to explain
between liberals and conservatives similar arguments that
'health insurance is necessary anyway' so "no one is losing rights by requiring it."
People are contesting both for their own reasons, and cannot understand
each other's objections.
So I brought this issue up, to try to compare it with the health care mandates.
Even if we don't agree, and we think these cases are completely different
and unrelated, they may help to shed light on why some people feel that
some rights are so "inalienable" they reject regulations that seem common sense to others.
I don't mind Voter ID, but I do mind the health care mandates
that aren't the only way to pay for health care.
Out of respect for people who are saying better means are needed besides Voter ID, I am open to resolving those conflicts, the same way I am asking people to resolve conflicts over ACA mandates that "aren't the only way" and shouldn't be imposed without the consent of people affected.