No, it actually helps mine and hurts yours.apples to apples is marriages to marriagescohabitation is irrelevant because it's not the same thing as marriage
to compare marriages, we dont use cohabitation.
you want to change the subject to relationships in general...and there's a reason for that. it's because evangelicals cheapen the sanctity of marriage worse than the average population.
nobody is talking about the sanctity of cohabitation
we are talking about the institution of marriage.
in other words, you're deflecting because you have to, emotionally.
People cohabiting today would be married 50 years ago. Evangelicals are one group bucking that trend, and probably even not completely.
I want to compare apples to apples. You want a bashing point for evangelicals.
And I am a lapsed Catholic at best, so no emotion here.
cohabitation is not marriage
Again, people who would have been married years ago due to societal pressures may just cohabitate today, that robs your attempted analysis of any historical information if you just try to compare marriages.
People have lent more respect to Marriage by not doing it unless they're more certain about it.
By arguing that more people co-habitate, all you're doing is arguing that the regular population got smart, didn't jump into something and thus aren't hurting the institution of marriage like the dummy evangelicals are.
You're literally making the point while being too daft to realize you're doing it.
How can you assume "more respect"? It could also be because they don't care about marriage, and thus don't do it.
You are assuming that people who cohabitate care about the "sanctity" of marriage, and that is their reason to not get married.
All to bash evangelicals.
"why do marriages fail"
"too many people jump into it prematurely"
<<people stop jumping in prematurely, marriage rate improves>>
Marty: "lets now compare other relationships to marriage and not just marriage to marriage to see whose marriage rates are better."
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