Dogmaphobe
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I guess that makes your co-worker a lesbian now, doesn't it?That would not be a situation I would be ok with, but my friends are not me. My co-worker is 100% behind it and was excited when her spouse started choosing a female name. When the spouse told their mother, her response was "well, now things make sense".
They are not hurting anyone, so why would I care?
The co-worker with the wife that just sort of randomly changed her name are in a Polyamorous Relationship, meaning they both have other partners outside of their marriage. For a while they even shared the same girl friend. They would to things as a trio sometimes, other times the two women would go away for the weekend or the man and the woman not his wife would go away. The two women are now no longer in a relationship but the husband and other woman are.
I totally do not understand it, I could never have that sort of a relationship, but it seems to make them happy so who am I to judge
Has she known from the time she was a toddler that she was a lesbian?