Dragonlady
Designing Woman
Yes, you're right. And if you think it's bad now .... imagine what it was like for decades and decades before the modern day.
I don't have to imagine it. I lived through it. I remember parties when I was in high school where some "drunk girl" taking on all comers in a bedroom upstairs. Afterwards, she was treated as the town tramp. What was really happening was some poor girl had too much to drink, and went/was taken to lay down and was being gang raped in a bedroom upstairs. She was in no condition to consent or fight them off. No one ever went upstairs to put a stop to it.
I never ever drank alcohol at any party I went to, and neither did any of my friends. We were all afraid of ending up as "that girl". But I think young women today have it worse than we did, in many ways. The "good girls" weren't expected to be sexually active, so I think the decent guys were more willing to respect the word "No".
Today "No" means nothing to men. They have a lot more entitlements in regards to sex. They assume the girls they date have sex with other men, why not them? I've ridden public transit, all of my life and yes, there have been times when some creep has tried to feel me up, but they weren't a common occurence. My 33 year old daughter stopped riding transit when she was in her early 20's because she was being groped every time she rode the streetcar or subway.