I don't really know that Trump is any of those things.
Seems to me that people like that -- those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder -- would be more likely to look at any person within the context of how that person might help them buttress their sense of self-importance and make them feel more admired and praised.
So any person of any gender or race or sexual orientation or political position can do that, and that's his top priority. If they refuse, the name-calling and personal attacks begin on them forthwith (another classic symptom of that particular disorder).
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Seems to me that he is mostly a counter puncher. Someone doesn't just NOT HELP him, but someone generally has to attack him, and then he fights back.
Which, undermines your diagnosis of Narcissism.