To be perfectly honest...I think I am going to get turned down flat. But, I will take the risk... if the men think it is a good idea that is.
Well, a lack of self-confidence is likely to shine through, and that might be why you'd get turned down. Just recognize that while there are some generalities about men/women/people, we are individuals, and what works for some doesn't work for others. You won't get a consensus on here or anywhere. So do what makes you feel comfortable.
I think I am going to get turned down because he is just not interested. I still want opinions though...where are all the men when you need them? LOL
Then jump right in. If he's not interested then you will know immediately and move on.