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For the sake of the children involved or mandated to be legally adopted out to them once the ink is dry...Do not care any more about those marriages than I do gay marriage. Why do you?
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For the sake of the children involved or mandated to be legally adopted out to them once the ink is dry...Do not care any more about those marriages than I do gay marriage. Why do you?
Except you only want to require those people whose partnership you don't agree with to have to make do with the CU. straight couples can keep right on getting marriage licenses if they like. and you don't want to see how that is "separate but equal". Sorry, you're a hypocrite.That's just it. The government isn't telling you what you have to call it; only what it is going to recognise it as for the purpose of the benefits that come with the partnership known as marriage.Ah! Well, then! When gays call that partnership marriage, then you will have no problem with that, right?
I don't care what gays call it, as long as I don't have to call it that and as long as the government isn't telling me I have to call it that.
Now, obviously, if you happen to be the administrator of a hospital, then the government is telling you, regardless of what you want to call it, that the husband of this man on life support has the exact same right to decide what treatment he gets as the wife of the man who is on life support in the next room.
That's all the government is telling you. The government doesn't give a rats ass what you call the partnership - they consider it a marriage, and give the participants all of the considerations accordingly. They do not require you to call it anything.
Again... My solution remedies the hospital situation. As long as you have the civil union contract, you are the civil partner. Where this has been an issue is in states not recognizing gay marriage, where a gay partner is not given consideration because the hospital is legally obligated to give that consideration to "spouse" or next of kin. If there is no spouse, they can't consider anything but next of kin. The CU contract takes care of that, the CU partner is effectively the spouse.
Except you only want to require those people whose partnership you don't agree with to have to make do with the CU. straight couples can keep right on getting marriage licenses if they like. and you don't want to see how that is "separate but equal". Sorry, you're a hypocrite.
Really??? You wanna take the "moral high ground" as a heterosexual, "for the children"? Shall I post the pictures of Britney Spears? How about Newt Gingrich, and his multiple marriages? Or maybe John McCain? You know, if you're that worried about children being raised in a morally questionable atmosphere, I think you might wanna start a little closer to home than the homosexual community.For the sake of the children involved or mandated to be legally adopted out to them once the ink is dry...Do not care any more about those marriages than I do gay marriage. Why do you?
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For the sake of the children involved or mandated to be legally adopted out to them once the ink is dry...
Or marital status. Martial Status is currently one of the federaly protected classes and no, private entities cannot discriminate against you on the basis of your marital statues. This comes into play most with fair housing disputes, but also occasionally arises in employment discrimination when an employer wants someone with fewer personal obligations, or when the employer doesn't want to pay a higher share of insurance for a family plan vs a single plan for an unmarried applicant.Private entities can discriminate now, as long as it's not on basis of race, religion, gender or national origin.
Then you are suggesting exactly what I said you are, and you insisted you weren't:Except you only want to require those people whose partnership you don't agree with to have to make do with the CU. straight couples can keep right on getting marriage licenses if they like. and you don't want to see how that is "separate but equal". Sorry, you're a hypocrite.
No, that's not what I proposed or what I said I wanted. There would no longer be "marriage licenses" at all... NONE... they no longer exist... got it? Are we clear on that? In the place of those, the governments would ONLY issue contracts to any two consenting parties of legal age.
Now... In the case of people who are ALREADY married, who ALREADY have a "marriage license" whether it's a relatively new Gay Marriage license or the old fashioned regular ones, THOSE people would not have to go to the courthouse and obtain some new CU contract to remain "married" to each other, we would simply "grandfather" those people in, and their "marriage license" would become de facto "civil union contracts" for the purpose of this transition. That's the ONLY case you'd have something different, and it would ONLY be to accomodate those who already have a marriage license. Have I made this clear enough now?
Marriages won't fall under any kind of civil contracts, because, as far as secular, civil society is concerned, they don't exist. Sure, you can call your arrangement with your female life partner a "marriage" all you want. Guess what? Without a Civil Union Contract, that partnership is meaningless. Marriage would be relegated to the same irrelevance as baptism, or confirmation - it only has meaning within the church. I have no problem with that. Like I have repeatedly said; go ahead, and get the theocrats, and moralists to agree to that. Lemme know how it works out for ya.Well, I never said anything about making marriages irrelevant. My solution doesn't do that. Marriages would fall under the same civil contracts as all other arrangements of domestic partnerships, as far as the government and law is concerned.
Hospitals have always been governed by private policy and that policy has traditionally been in favor of anyone the patient wants to see. The rare exeptions pro-SSM brought to the spotlight are of patients in critical care, and then the actions of one employee just being a dick, not the Hospital's official action.Again... My solution remedies the hospital situation. As long as you have the civil union contract, you are the civil partner. Where this has been an issue is in states not recognizing gay marriage, where a gay partner is not given consideration because the hospital is legally obligated to give that consideration to "spouse" or next of kin. If there is no spouse, they can't consider anything but next of kin. The CU contract takes care of that, the CU partner is effectively the spouse.
Or marital status. Martial Status is currently one of the federaly protected classes and no, private entities cannot discriminate against you on the basis of your marital statues. This comes into play most with fair housing disputes, but also occasionally arises in employment discrimination when an employer wants someone with fewer personal obligations, or when the employer doesn't want to pay a higher share of insurance for a family plan vs a single plan for an unmarried applicant.Private entities can discriminate now, as long as it's not on basis of race, religion, gender or national origin.
"Get the government out of marriage" is the elimination of a Federaly protected class.
The existing license is a contract. Replacing it with an identical contract of a different name changes nothing but the name. Whatever grievences you claim under the existing contract will continue to exist under your new contract.No it's not because as I said, the CU contract would replace marriage licenses.
The existing marriage license doesn't protect marital status, either. That's the Civil Rights Act.The CRA does not protect marital class.
Then you are suggesting exactly what I said you are, and you insisted you weren't:Except you only want to require those people whose partnership you don't agree with to have to make do with the CU. straight couples can keep right on getting marriage licenses if they like. and you don't want to see how that is "separate but equal". Sorry, you're a hypocrite.
No, that's not what I proposed or what I said I wanted. There would no longer be "marriage licenses" at all... NONE... they no longer exist... got it? Are we clear on that? In the place of those, the governments would ONLY issue contracts to any two consenting parties of legal age.
Now... In the case of people who are ALREADY married, who ALREADY have a "marriage license" whether it's a relatively new Gay Marriage license or the old fashioned regular ones, THOSE people would not have to go to the courthouse and obtain some new CU contract to remain "married" to each other, we would simply "grandfather" those people in, and their "marriage license" would become de facto "civil union contracts" for the purpose of this transition. That's the ONLY case you'd have something different, and it would ONLY be to accommodate those who already have a marriage license. Have I made this clear enough now?
Marriages won't fall under any kind of civil contracts, because, as far as secular, civil society is concerned, they don't exist. Sure, you can call your arrangement with your female life partner a "marriage" all you want. Guess what? Without a Civil Union Contract, that partnership is meaningless. Marriage would be relegated to the same irrelevance as baptism, or confirmation - it only has meaning within the church. I have no problem with that. Like I have repeatedly said; go ahead, and get the theocrats, and moralists to agree to that. Lemme know how it works out for ya.Well, I never said anything about making marriages irrelevant. My solution doesn't do that. Marriages would fall under the same civil contracts as all other arrangements of domestic partnerships, as far as the government and law is concerned.
Again, all you're doing is changeing the name. I don't see what that's supposed to accomplish.Then you are suggesting exactly what I said you are, and you insisted you weren't:Except you only want to require those people whose partnership you don't agree with to have to make do with the CU. straight couples can keep right on getting marriage licenses if they like. and you don't want to see how that is "separate but equal". Sorry, you're a hypocrite.
No, that's not what I proposed or what I said I wanted. There would no longer be "marriage licenses" at all... NONE... they no longer exist... got it? Are we clear on that? In the place of those, the governments would ONLY issue contracts to any two consenting parties of legal age.
Now... In the case of people who are ALREADY married, who ALREADY have a "marriage license" whether it's a relatively new Gay Marriage license or the old fashioned regular ones, THOSE people would not have to go to the courthouse and obtain some new CU contract to remain "married" to each other, we would simply "grandfather" those people in, and their "marriage license" would become de facto "civil union contracts" for the purpose of this transition. That's the ONLY case you'd have something different, and it would ONLY be to accommodate those who already have a marriage license. Have I made this clear enough now?
No, you said I was calling for "separate but equal" and that is wrong. I've not said or implied any such thing. People would still get married. Churches would still perform weddings. Even GAY weddings, if they wanted to. The only thing that changes is government recognition of the civil domestic partnership. Married people are civil partners already, they don't need a new document to confirm that. If you are already married, nothing changes. Your marriage isn't dissolved or rendered meaningless. Your old marriage license simply becomes a de facto civil union contract. Any FUTURE marriage would have to obtain a CU contract instead of a marriage license. The CU contract would be available to people who wanted to get married, whether gay or straight, or just two people who wanted to enter into a partnership with each other for whatever reason. Government would make no delineation on that.
Marriages won't fall under any kind of civil contracts, because, as far as secular, civil society is concerned, they don't exist. Sure, you can call your arrangement with your female life partner a "marriage" all you want. Guess what? Without a Civil Union Contract, that partnership is meaningless. Marriage would be relegated to the same irrelevance as baptism, or confirmation - it only has meaning within the church. I have no problem with that. Like I have repeatedly said; go ahead, and get the theocrats, and moralists to agree to that. Lemme know how it works out for ya.Well, I never said anything about making marriages irrelevant. My solution doesn't do that. Marriages would fall under the same civil contracts as all other arrangements of domestic partnerships, as far as the government and law is concerned.
Again, you are trying to complicate this and distort what I've proposed. Civil society would certainly still recognize marriage. We're not talking about what society does, we're talking about GOVERNMENT. No one is talking about making marriage irrelevant. Government would no longer issue a "marriage license" and would issue a "civil union contract" in place of that. Already existing marriage licenses would simply become CU contracts in the eyes of government. No one has to "give up" anything.
The existing license is a contract. Replacing it with an identical contract of a different name changes nothing but the name. Whatever grievences you claim under the existing contract will continue to exist under your new contract.No it's not because as I said, the CU contract would replace marriage licenses.
The existing marriage license doesn't protect marital status, either. That's the Civil Rights Act.The CRA does not protect marital class.
Again, all you're doing is changeing the name. I don't see what that's supposed to accomplish.
So you basicaly just want anyone to be able to marry anyone and you think repackaging open-marriage under a diferent name will acomplish that.Again, people who have already obtained a "marriage license" wouldn't have to change anything. Their "marriage license" would simply become a CU contract. We'd only have CU contracts going forward. If you wanted to "get married" you'd simply go to the courthouse and get a CU contract instead of a marriage license. OR... if you were a person caring for an aging parent, or two spinster sisters, you could get a CU contract and form a domestic partnership for tax reasons or insurance, etc.
OR.... if you were a gay couple wanting to play house... whatever the fuck you wanted to do in your domestic partnership, the government wouldn't care. The CU contract would be all-inclusive, regardless of the nature of the relationship.
The existing marriage license doesn't protect marital status, either. That's the Civil Rights Act.
I'm sorry but this doesn't even make sense to me. The CRA does NOT protect marital status.
Civil Rights Act of 1964 - Wikipedia the free encyclopedia
The Civil Rights Act of 1964 (Pub.L. 88–352, 78 Stat.241, enacted July 2, 1964) is a landmark piece of civil rights legislation in the United States[5] that outlawed discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin.
So you basicaly just want anyone to be able to marry anyone and you think repackaging open-marriage under a diferent name will acomplish that.
Isn't what you're advocating exactly the slippery-slope social Conservatives say would happen, and social Liberals deny would happen?
Boss said:
'Again, people who have already obtained a "marriage license" wouldn't have to change anything. Their "marriage license" would simply become a CU contract. We'd only have CU contracts going forward. If you wanted to "get married" you'd simply go to the courthouse and get a CU contract instead of a marriage license.'
Which would be un-Constitutional, a violation of the 14th Amendment's Equal Protection Clause, as 'separate but equal' is still repugnant to the Constitution.
Subjective definitions are meaningles. We're discussing public policy.For me, "marriage" is....
I had said "anyone can marry anyone".Now I don't know what you mean by "open-marriage" ...that term doesn't make sense to me.
The government's interest in marriage is the raising & socializing of children, and promoting stable relationships. Both affect economic and domestic health and stability. If you don't want to involve the government in your union then just don't get a marriage license.The government has no reason to know the nature of our personal relationships.
So again you just want anyone to be able to marry anyone and you think repackaging marriage under a diferent name will accomplish that.If we need to have some kind of distinction between people who are single and people who are domestic couples, the CU contract fulfills that need without regard for the nature of the relationship itself. And that's how it should be. Let the people decide for themselves what "marriage" is. CU contracts would not be available to multiple parties, if you already have an existing contract you couldn't obtain another. They wouldn't apply to children or animals, or anyone not consenting. And most importantly, they wouldn't be issued on basis of sexual behavior or intimacy of the relationship. The BONUS is, these contracts could be useful for a variety of situations unrelated to "marriage" or intimate relationships. Like I said, a person caring for an aging parent, two spinster sisters, to platonic buddies, momma and her 34-year-old son... whatever! As long as it's two consenting adults who don't already have a civil partnership. "Divorce" would become "contract dissolution" and handled much the same as it currently is.
And let's get it fucking clear about what is "constitutionally sound" at this point... the SCOTUS has not ruled that Gay Marriage is a thing. There is no stipulation in the Constitution which allows sexual behaviors to define marriage..