This was a 60 minutes story. It was a tragic event that led to an unlikely friendship. A white woman, Jennifer Thompson was raped by a black man. Ronald Cotton was arrested and charged with the crime and Jennifer, while honestly believing he was the rapist, mistakeningly ID him. Cotton went to jail for over a decade. A DNA test exonerated him.
Jennifer felt so guilty she asked for his forgivenness. He gave it immediately. Now they crusade together. Read to his words. He was falsely put behind bars for a crime he didn't commit. His kindness and campassion are remarkable. If you were put behind bar for a crime you didn't commit, would you have the compassion and understanding that Cotton had? I doubt it. It's an amazing story that goes well beyond race!
Jennifer felt so guilty she asked for his forgivenness. He gave it immediately. Now they crusade together. Read to his words. He was falsely put behind bars for a crime he didn't commit. His kindness and campassion are remarkable. If you were put behind bar for a crime you didn't commit, would you have the compassion and understanding that Cotton had? I doubt it. It's an amazing story that goes well beyond race!
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Ronald Cotton said that he was living in hell while serving 11 years in a North Carolina prison for a rape he did not commit. The only way he says he could put hell behind him when a DNA test exonerated him of the rape in 1995 was by learning to forgive. That he has done with his White accuser, Jennifer Thompson, whom he has since befriended.
"I don't see a need to hold a grudge. A mistake was made," Cotton, 38, tells JET. "Things do happen and I understand that. No one is perfect. I had to accept that and move on with my life instead of living my life in misery by thinking about getting her back. I was already living in hell. I didn't want to make it worse by taking that road."
Thompson, 38, explains their friendship to JET, "We really care very much about each other and what happens in each other's lives. That's an important issue to get across. We try to get across that there's nothing in life that you can't overcome. The only way to overcome things is to forgive. To not forgive keeps you detached from love and joy. That's something that he and I learned."
She still marvels at the manner in which Cotton forgave her. "When I asked him to forgive me and he very very graciously and quickly said, `Of course,' it happened immediately for me that we became friends. I can't speak for Ron but for me it did. He changed the way I look at a lot of things."
Cotton and Thompson were both forced to look at life in a dramatic new way in 1984...
Thompson, then a 22-year-old student at Elon College in North Carolina, was raped by a Black man as he held a knife to her throat. The straight-A student studied every detail about her attacker's face in an effort to ensure that he would be caught and punished. Two days after the crime, Thompson was called in to do a photographic lineup based on a sketch she helped police to create of the rapist. Immediately, she saw what she thought was the face of the man who broke into her Burlington, NC, apartment and violated her body that night. It was the face of a then 22-year-old Cotton.
Cotton, a young man who worked at a seafood restaurant who had encountered a couple of brushes with the law as a teen, got wind that the police were looking for him in connection with the burglary and rape. He didn't think twice about going to the police station in an attempt to clear his name. Cotton had no idea this would be his last day of freedom for more than a decade.