Gunny
Gold Member
I agree. I think the comments are more a reflection of what is in the mind of the viewer than the actions performers. And I think I'd be really pissed if I were a parent of one of them probably sacrificing to give them something only to have people ridicule my child and call me a bad parent.
Voicing an opinion on an internet message board created for just that purpose is a far cry from ridiculing someone's children.
The dance is not appropriate for 7 years olds. It is sexually provocative. The outfits are sexually provocative and inappropriate as well.
That is my opinion on this topic, and I disagree with yours. We as parents and as a society are not above the consequences of the example our behaviors set for others; most especially our children.
I'm just not seeing what YOU are seeing. I had children in dance for several years and those are just standard dance outfits and standard dance steps. And before you decide to jump in and tell me what an unfit mother I was I will tell you that my daughter is 33, has a bachelors and a masters, well traveled, didn't marry until she was 30. And she, like the other person described below was a very well grounded adolescent. It is things like dance and performing that give kids the skills and the abilities to ward off predators. They occupy their space in a manner that no one will try to push them out of it or violate them. It is kids who don't have good self concept or good boundaries who get victimized. I have worked with victims for 20 years, and I know.
Someone posted a pic of that Ramsey girl. But her murder had nothing to do with her performing.
I raised both my daughters practically alone for for 7 years, and was a single parent of the oldest for for the next 9. I KNOW what I wanted my daughter to believe and between peer pressure/society and media, she thought behaving inappropriately was okay.
Your argument attempts to state that children are smart enough to watch their peers/society and know right from wrong. Right and wrong are societal constructs in and of themselves. There is no intrinsic right and wrong. Humans are animals and at birth the only thing intrinsic is our feeble attempt to survive. The difference between us and other animals is we have the ability to reason. Right and wrong are the constructs of a society protected by its strong. Until that society legislates the strong out of existence.
What are you teaching 7 years olds by teaching them to wear sexually provocative outfits and perform sexually provocative dances? That sex sells? Shake your ass in the right way and you get ahead?
How is that any different from teaching illiterate athletes that as long as they can "play ball", they have a future? What is productive and/or a contribution to our society in either case?
I was at one time a long-haired, dope -smoking, bell-bottomed hippy and rebel against "the man" from Hell. That changed when I had a child.
And the biggest culprits were the "if you don't like what's on, change the channel" channel crowd.
No. How about you/society don't teach my daughters to be sluts and the odds are pretty good they won't?