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Yikes! Was the Sui cider associated with the drug dealers?About two months ago there was a suicide in a neighborhood I watch several homes in throughout the winter. One of my customers has a camera system in place and the Sheriff Department was granted access to it. I was there to give entry several times.
The investigation resulted in the arrest of three people yesterday and today. Heroin delivery charges.
Mom drove me up to North Lima and the eye surgery center today to be measured and assessed for the first operation on Thursday.
I went through the measurement process by putting my chin in a cup and resting my forehead against a strap and staring blankly into a series of machines with lights. The first machine offered up a green dot with what appeared to be a stack of black twigs. When they measured my left eye, that stack of twigs was more clearly visible as a star or asterisk. And here I thought my left eye was the poorer of the two.
The second device had an amber dot that looked like a setting sun. That went well.
But the third machine looked like a prop from a bad sci-fi movie. It had a nylon and Velcro strap to steady the noggin. The business end of this gizmo had what appeared to be a series of dark gray parenthesis on a jet black background. Once my head was secured, the gray arcs turned bright yellow (a Steelers fan's idea of a beautiful color scheme) and a scarlet fuzzy light in the middle that gradually became more focused until the machine let out a grand "CLICK" like a camera.
This went on for a good twenty minutes. Then came the presentation of the eye drop regimine. One set three times a day, one set twice daily and a third set daily for the next twenty three days.
My brother explained that preparing for a colonoscopy is something to dred while eye surgery preparation is a sissy's way to go. I have to admir he makes a good point.
Moon pies! How in the Hell did Moon pies not make the list?
Moon pies! How in the Hell did Moon pies not make the list?
I suppose because they are already so processed we can't screw those up?
I'm sorry Nosmo
What eye surgery are you having? I go see the cataract surgeon doc on the 18th so he can examine what needs done and I'm freaking out about it, to be honest. They are gonna have to knock my ass out too, cuz twilight drugs don't work on me. Still...knowing someone is sticking a knife in my eyeball freaks me out worse than the damn colonoscopy...which is nothing compared to the prep of it.
Meanwhile...new roomie arrived about an hour ago and is moving his stuff in. He and the other roomie met and became instant friends. I told them both to enjoy, cuz granny and grampy were heading back to the back of the house to join our moth balls and left them to jabber in spanish and discuss parking spaces, shower times on the bathroom they share and whatever else whippersnappers talk about.![]()
I've told you stories of Pop before. How he wanted to watch his own orthroscopic surgery, how he loved his dogs and would let them lick his face while he read the evening newspapers, how he taught his sons to respect the written word and how, for fifty five years he loved his wife.
But today is the anniversary of his death and I'd like to tell you how he passed.
It was 3:00 in the morning on Friday April 4 when my phone rang. My brother told me to get to the Big House right away. My brother lives only a few blocks away and got the call from Mom first. I got there about ten minutes later. Pop was already on the ambulance stretcher and was being carried down the stairs. We had a similar scare with Mom in February and no one thought to bring her some warm clothes to come home from the hospital in. I was not going to make the same mistake twice so I gathered up a sweater, a pair of trousers, a pair of socks and shoes for Pop. I put the clothes on the back seat of my car and followed the ambulance down the hill to the emergency room. After the requisite paperwork, initial exam and Pop being wheeled into the x-Ray room, the time wore on to 4:30.
That's when the doctor met with Mom and her sons and told her that Pop had suffered a massive cerebral hemorrhage and there was not going to be a good outcome. We gathered around his emergency room bed and wept and worried and prayed.
The hospital chaplain was summoned and prayed with us. He incredulously prayed for a swift and complete recovery. I flinched because I knew that was not possible. We thanked the chaplain, who had delivered his standard hospital prayer and took our places as Pop laid silent, except for his labored breathing.
By chance, or grace, or providence, our minister came into the ER. He was there on another appeal, but knowing all of us for all my life, he took his place in our circle and prayed.
He prayed for a gentle, peaceful passing. He prayed for Pop's soul and its safe keeping. It was now 5:00 am.
Four minutes later Pop rose slightly, turned to his right and quietly passed away.
I saw the actions of a loving, caring and forgiving God that morning. Pop died surrounded by his family with as little pain and suffering as possible.
At 8:00 that morning the call came asking us to donate Pop's eyes and long bones to help others. We agreed with sadness and a twinge of joy. I had to pick out a suit to bury Pop in and his blue flannel was my choice.
I took his suit from the clothes press and carried out to my car so I could take it to the dry cleaner. I was going to buy him a new shirt and have the funeral director tie his Carnegie Mellon University alumnae tie on him. When I opened the back door of my car I saw the sweater and trousers and shoes and socks I put there to bring Pop home in. Instead, I put his blue flannel on the seat.
The rest of that weekend remains a blur. I know that the rest of April that year was consumed with thank you cards, insurance agents, lawyers and fresh cut slower so daily on his new grave.
I still miss him everyday.
I watched the surgery on youtube. *Shudder*I'm sorry Nosmo
What eye surgery are you having? I go see the cataract surgeon doc on the 18th so he can examine what needs done and I'm freaking out about it, to be honest. They are gonna have to knock my ass out too, cuz twilight drugs don't work on me. Still...knowing someone is sticking a knife in my eyeball freaks me out worse than the damn colonoscopy...which is nothing compared to the prep of it.
Meanwhile...new roomie arrived about an hour ago and is moving his stuff in. He and the other roomie met and became instant friends. I told them both to enjoy, cuz granny and grampy were heading back to the back of the house to join our moth balls and left them to jabber in spanish and discuss parking spaces, shower times on the bathroom they share and whatever else whippersnappers talk about.![]()
Nosmo is having cataract surgery and I'll tell you what I have been telling him. It is truly a miracle medical procedure, absolutely painless--at least it was for me, before, during, and after--the follow up just requires using special eye drops for a few days and wearing an eye protector when you go to bed at night for about three days--that is to keep you from inadvertently injuring the healing eye--and then it is done. You will see better most likely than you ever had in your life--images are sharper, more in focus, and in amazing detail, colors are brilliant and vibrant, and you'll love it.