gallantwarrior
Gold Member
There are many things a friend may say that those less familiar might. I think you were being a good friend and you were trying to be helpful by pointing out the obvious. She's probably already heard all this from her doctors but she wanted validation that her laziness and inability to lose weight was not her fault. You did well, Gracie. Sometimes, we have to say goodbye to friends we have held dear, and sometimes the reasons aren't all that clear.Well..someone is totally pissed at me. Acquaintence of mine I have known many years just told me (via text) that she wants nothing more to do with me. Which is fine. She has always been a manipulative whiney hypochondriac so its no loss.
However, she got all indignant over something and I wanted your opinions on whether I was "too rude" to her.
All this happened via text. And I shortened it enough so you get the gist without the rest of the bullshit. The red font is what pissed her off.
Her: I just got out of the hospital.
Me: What's wrong?
Her: I have A-Fib.
Me: Are you better now?
Her: My blood pressure is 230/185 and has been for years. My heart was vibrating instead of beating.
Me: MrG has a-fib. He's on warfarin. That is probably what they will put you on.
Her: No, they want to do surgery.
Me: Surgery is dangerous. If you want to control your BP naturally, maybe try a Paleo Diet? Weight is an issue, I am not trying to be rude.
Her: WE ALL HAVE OUR FLAWS! Even people with bad attitudes like you!!!!!
Me: Do you get defensive when your doc tells you you need to lose weight or do you save that for me?
Her: I will not be friends with you any more. Your tongue is too sharp. My heart cannot take it.
Me: You want me to baby you and I refuse to. If you want to live, you have to get some weight off. It will help your doctors AND you.
Her: I am done with you. Begone.
Me:. Ok. Adios.
Now..this gal weighs 375 lbs and is obese and has been for many years.
Was I rude in suggesting a paleo diet or ANY diet? Is that having a sharp tongue?