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I think about you and wonder how it's going. Those periods of grief probably will hit you intermittently for some time. My Aunt Betty lost her husband of 50 years four years ago and still has those times, most commonly around birthdays, holidays and such, but can happen at other times. They do come less frequently and with less intensity and duration over time. But I think you handled it as well as it can be done. Your loss is still pretty recent.Last night was kinda rough, for some reason I started thinking about my wife just as I went to bed, reliving her passing. I finally did get to sleep about an hour later after focusing in on her alive and our happy shared times together and the fact that she is now in a much better place.
I had to get up early, landscaping crew came by to remove the crepe myrtle bush that was on top of my main waste line with roots growing into the waste line. They took the bush out and poured a concentrated root killer over the area, hopefully that will fix the problem.