Seawytch
Information isnt Advocacy
you and your partner should be able to file a joint tax return. I have no issue with that. your mutual committment should be recognized as long as you both have legally agreed to it-----------but its not a marriage.
You've lost the semantics battle, but you will always be able to belong to a religion or church that discriminates. The government cannot be allowed to.
You are not discriminated against today. you have the same civil rights as anyone else. marriage is NOT a civil right.
no matter how you spin it, gay marriage is not a protected right under the constitution.
Just sign your civil union or mutual support contract and be done with it. That will get you what you want in term of survivors rights, insurance, inheritence etc.
But thats not your real goal now is it? Please tell the truth for just once and answer that question honestly.
I've told the truth every step of the way, you just refuse to accept it. Marriage is a fundamental right and in order to deny a fundamental right, your reason for doing so must pass a standard of reasonableness. Yours can't. Doing the "good enough foyer you people" thing ain't gonna cut it in court. (Wait and see)
It certainly won't cut it in the court of public opinion...