Montrovant
Fuzzy bears!
Kids have a way of getting to the Forbidden Fruit no matter what you do.
Do you have any kids? IF so then you should know what hobilem meant.
Children seem to be proof of free will....and a universe ruled by anarchy.
I don't have any of my own children, but I have been a nanny to a 5 year old since she was born. I would never let her touch a hot stove. I've stopped her from doing so more than once. Why? I think the risk of injury is greater than the reward of learning not to touch the stove through pain.![]()
If you had your own children and had to do things other than just watch them, you would find out that it is impossible to get them to mind 100% of the time.
It is far better for them to learn to trust you when you say no than it is to hover over them 24/7. They will get over a widdle burnypooo. But them learning to trust you and keep that trust into their teen years may save their lives.
What do you mean, do things other than just watch them? What is it you think I would do as a parent that I don't do now?
And touching a hot stove might cause a 'widdle burnypooo'.....or it might cause a severe burn. What's the reason for allowing it? Is the child unable to learn not to touch it through any other means?
Should I let a child play with a fork in an electrical socket? Jump off a roof attempting to fly? Play in traffic? Everyone who takes care of a child determines for themselves which risks are worth allowing the child to take and which are not. There is no universal agreement for what is or is not too dangerous. I don't allow the child to touch a hot stove. Neither do her parents, so I'm not sure how being a parent would have changed anything.