Women are, in fact, "shallower" than men

[Bonzi]

I've seen attractive men with some very average to ugly women. I'm sorry but I don't think it's because of their great personality

I've seen vice versa and the attractive woman with the average man picked him because he was low drama and pleasant to be around.

That is more common, women don't value looks as much as men do

 

[Michelle420]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

He can be but that is not always the case. An attractive woman could get an attractive man who is also a good provider Typically an attractive woman with an unattractive male is opting for an easygoing man and no weird control issues.

 

[iamwhatiseem]

Hmm...I don't think women are any worse or better than men, I would however say that as teenagers, particular high school age teens....girls can be almost inhuman.
Extremely cruel to each other, way more than boys are to each other. And love to play games with boys, pinning them against each other etc.
But as adults, I don't think either one is worse.

Girls can't pin boys against each other. Boys make a choice the friend or the sexual attraction.

Isn't that simple.
First, teenagers do not have a developed frontal lobe, so they do not yet posses critical thinking.
Two - when sexually aroused, even less of a man's frontal lobe is engaged...indeed it almost goes dark. So it is not that simple, and explains well why grown men actually avoid a woman when another man is around.

 

[JoeMoma]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

He can be but that is not always the case. An attractive woman could get an attractive man who is also a good provider Typically an attractive woman with an unattractive male is opting for an easygoing man and no weird control issues.

Of course it’s not always the case, hence “usually”.

 

[Michelle420]

Hmm...I don't think women are any worse or better than men, I would however say that as teenagers, particular high school age teens....girls can be almost inhuman.
Extremely cruel to each other, way more than boys are to each other. And love to play games with boys, pinning them against each other etc.
But as adults, I don't think either one is worse.

Girls can't pin boys against each other. Boys make a choice the friend or the sexual attraction.

Isn't that simple.
First, teenagers do not have a developed frontal lobe, so they do not yet posses critical thinking.
Two - when sexually aroused, even less of a man's frontal lobe is engaged...indeed it almost goes dark. So it is not that simple, and explains well why grown men actually avoid a woman when another man is around.

Teenage girls aren't emotionally mature either. They aren't responsible for someone frontal lobe development or their hormones

 

[Bonzi]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

I've seen some pretty ugly women with wealthy husband's. The men don't leave cuase they don't want to go broke...and, the woman let's him do whatever he wants

 

[Michelle420]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

He can be but that is not always the case. An attractive woman could get an attractive man who is also a good provider Typically an attractive woman with an unattractive male is opting for an easygoing man and no weird control issues.

Of course it’s not always the case, hence “usually”.

I don't even agree with usually, without a doubt an attractive woman can get an attractive man and good provider. Women pick men for other qualities than just looks or money.

 

[ChrisL]

So? What is the point here then? There are selfish and shallow women and men. That is an individual attribute and not a gender specific one.

 

[ChrisL]

I guess "attribute" is the wrong choice of word. Trait is a better choice.

 

[Marion Morrison]

-Back after counting teeth.

What I miss?

 

[JoeMoma]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

I've seen some pretty ugly women with wealthy husband's. The men don't leave cuase they don't want to go broke...and, the woman let's him do whatever he wants

And that is a different subject.

 

[Michelle420]

So? What is the point here then? There are selfish and shallow women and men. That is an individual attribute and not a gender specific one.

Agreed But the op seems to think it's just women.

 

[ChrisL]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

He can be but that is not always the case. An attractive woman could get an attractive man who is also a good provider Typically an attractive woman with an unattractive male is opting for an easygoing man and no weird control issues.

Of course it’s not always the case, hence “usually”.

I don't even agree with usually, without a doubt an attractive woman can get an attractive man and good provider. Women pick men for other qualities than just looks or money.

No kidding. I could never be with a man just for either of those things or even both. I have to at least like the person. I don't know how people can be with a person that they don't even really like.

 

[JoeMoma]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

I've seen some pretty ugly women with wealthy husband's. The men don't leave cuase they don't want to go broke...and, the woman let's him do whatever he wants

Chances are they married before acquiring the wealth.

 

[ChrisL]

I couldn't STAND to be with someone that I don't like or respect, and especially in a romantic way. YUCK! If I don't like someone, they are disgusting to me, no matter how good looking they might be on the outside.

 

[evenflow1969]

Men don't choose women, women choose men.

Are you saying men don't have standards when it comes to women? Would you date Rosie O'Donnell if she wanted you?

There are good women and good men. They just are not the majority.

 

[JoeMoma]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

He can be but that is not always the case. An attractive woman could get an attractive man who is also a good provider Typically an attractive woman with an unattractive male is opting for an easygoing man and no weird control issues.

Of course it’s not always the case, hence “usually”.

I don't even agree with usually, without a doubt an attractive woman can get an attractive man and good provider. Women pick men for other qualities than just looks or money.

An of course I’m not saying a woman wouldn’t take a man that is both attractive and a good provider.

 

[ChrisL]

Usually if I see a very attractive woman with a not so attractive man, the man is a very good provider.

He can be but that is not always the case. An attractive woman could get an attractive man who is also a good provider Typically an attractive woman with an unattractive male is opting for an easygoing man and no weird control issues.

Of course it’s not always the case, hence “usually”.

I don't even agree with usually, without a doubt an attractive woman can get an attractive man and good provider. Women pick men for other qualities than just looks or money.

An of course I’m not saying a woman wouldn’t take a man that is both attractive and a good provider.

And there are men who will take a woman who is ONLY attractive. Lol. So? What does that prove?

 

[Marion Morrison]

I couldn't STAND to be with someone that I don't like or respect, and especially in a romantic way. YUCK! If I don't like someone, they are disgusting to me, no matter how good looking they might be on the outside.

I got disgusted with my ex's behavior, rolled over and said "Don't touch me."

 

[ChrisL]

Men: She's a bitch and I can't really stand her, but she's good looking and we have hot sex, so I stay with her.